So Many Things...So Little Time

My Little Xmas Fibreoptic Tree

***Peringatan,entry ini mempunyai unsur-unsur ke 'eksyen' an,ke 'bongkak' an dan kejahatan hati yang melampau,read at your own risk.***

*** What is that 'ARSE' doing there? Jersey-Jersey Arsenal Untuk Tatapan Abg LeQ & Meriam Untuk Menembak Kobau***

First let me start by telling how foul Chelsea FC played in yesterday's game.Their goal was a total sham where the referee has completely ignored the fact that Cashley Cole has done dirty.Although it was a nice goal from that Essien,Arsenal Boys really didn't deserved that.Mind you,my interest in football is only where David Beckham is.The fact that my partner lives in Finsbury Park where Emirates Stadium is within 5 minutes walking distance radius made me an Arsenal supporter.And then is of course our Mr Va Va Voom.I can be very spiteful at watching a football match and so I was last Sunday, towards Ashley 'No Defence' Cole.Benci...Benci.

My partner and I went for a walk on Sunday morning.We haven't had our private strolling moment for a long,long time and decide to give it a go,to see whether the walk could last longer in laughter rather than a fight.We did laughed a lot.We decided to walk to Emirates ground as I have always seen it from afar.To our surprise, the walk to Emirates Stadium only took 10 minutes from where Frankie lives.It has always seems so far before.I captured a few angle of shot from my mobile camera with leer intention (wonder to whom) and now, saya dengan berbesar hatinya ingin mempamerkan gambar-gambar ittew disini.So, LeQ, please in weep in desperation.Kau ado?

Well, enough Arsenal.Kang kecik pulak hati soccer fan team lain.I was reading the Malay Online Newspaper yesterday and read the news about this ex member of a once-upon-a-time famous girl band getting hitched for her 2nd time.Well, congratulation to her and her beau.Her ex husband was reportedly attended her blessing ceremony,and I was all smiles reading that. I am so happy for him at last.

I met the ex hubby couple of months ago in London.He had a terrible time in KL and wanted to chill out.He inadvertantly told me about his ex wife is soon going to remarry.Ahh..no wonder he was such in trouble.Well,it is good that he choose to chill out here rather than there.Too much hurt. He looks ill with his panda eyes.Kesian.He used to live in London where his mother resides and since he got married,he become irregular in his West End scene.I have known him for many,many years.Not that close though as we hardly crossed path,but friendly enough to get the invites of their wedding years ago.They have a whirlwind romance although the decision to tie the knot did surprised his mates as it is such a short affair for him and her.He have a strings of special relationships with women that is different from her.I'm not at all suggesting that she is not compatible but knowing him,all of us would have thought that he will choose his 'usual' type.2 months before their wedding,I was travelling to London on a same flight as him.He told me about his engagement to her (I was away in Australia,didn't get much news about friends) and how he really loved her.It sounded to me that he is starting anew and was so looking forward to be a married man to her.He gladly said that his wild days is over and he is now a one woman man.Not long after that,my mates emailed me some vile photograph of his fiancee with her ex boyfriend.Both man & woman claimed to have been a victim of a cybersmut and ridiculed the culprit.Well,they both succeed in manipulating the innocence into believing how ingenuine the photos were.That time I thought of him.I did saw him couple of time after that but as friend, I never thought it is appropriate to shoot even a question of curiousity.None of us (his friends that are also my friends) did.They stayed on together and marry one another.He must have loved her so much to withstand 'kata-kata' sumbang.

About 2 or 3 years ago,I saw him in London and he told me that his marriage is over.I didn't asked why but it seems to sad to see him brokenhearted.He told me that they still pretend that they still each others spouse in front of their sons.He fainted after divorcing her.It is just too much for him to bear losing the woman he loves.

One of his ex gf is my schoolmate and the reason she broke up with him was similar to reason of his marriage breakdown.They both befriended and one marries a man who was still a boy.This guy never have to work in his life.He live doing things that he likes,he partied hard and living a lifestyles of a spoilt brat.His marriage was managed by his parents, not that they voluntarily want to stick their oar in but he is just not responsible enough to man his family.But he is indeed a very nice man.

The problem with 'too' independent woman is that they expect a great deal from their partner.A woman generally want a husband to protect them,physically and emotionally.While some woman is complacent with hen pecked, there is some who does want a man who will fight for her honour (ehh..macam Peter Cetera lah pulak) There is a period of love that could last to ignore the man imperfections but somehow the burning yearns of a strong shoulder willl soon resurface and usually the over independent woman will not hesitate to call it a day when the wet blanket takes longer to dry itself.

From afar, it looks like the ex husband has moved on (though I hope he also move on from his drinking & drugging days) but I bet,it will take him a long time to mourn the loss of the woman he really loves especially when he realises that the love goes more deeper when he is about to lose her.Selalunya macam tu lah kan, bila dah nak hilang dari tangan, barulah terbangun dari tidur.Macam kami dalam rumah ni, dah nak Christmas, baru teringat pokok Christmas yang duduk bermastautin diam-diam kat atas loft tu.Kalau tak,mampuslah tak ingat simpan kat mana.Teruk kan?