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Friday, June 17, 2016

Update

Here's what been said....pompuan gila saja yang kan percaya lakinya 100%. I wonder can the same be said about makpak, siblings or anak?

Look at us. Do we really lead the life of what others think of us? Or what others believe how we live it? Actually what been said about trusting spouse 100% wasn't the reason prompting this entry. I seen cases of double life and I think, I might be leading one, or even more. And people who are close to me maybe thinking yang I ni set-set pijak semut pun tak mati. 

I bukan nak cakap pasal double or triple life. I am sure at certain stage of our life, kita kena role play, ye tak? Kita kena jadi isteri mithali tapi belakang, sakit hati kat laki. Or, kita kena jadi majikan who berazam takkan dipergunakan oleh pekerja. Or kita nak jadik gilpren yang setia tanpa dimain kayu 2,3 dek pakwe kita. 

Thing is when you are too cautious, you jadi penat. You constantly musing whether to do or not to do, to believe or not to believe. Nak ke hidup camtu?

I was talking to my friend about our friend yang dah 4 kali bertukar laki. Considering dia ni pun baya-baya I, this friend of mine kata yang her circumstances is unusual. Ye lah...kawin cerai, kawin cerai. Bunyi nya macam tak best. But looking at it with a sharp perspective...it can either be ;-

1. When she feels love, she acts on it. Kahwin lah. What's so difficult about getting married? Takda nak decide-decide whether nak kahwin dengan yang ni ka, dengan yang tu. 

2. Dia berani buat keputusan..ya lah, one marriage didn't worked out, so berambus lah kan? Buat apa nak save, save, save...dalam pada nak buat misi menyelamat tu dah membuang masa...cinta makin tak ada...so cut the losses lah kan? So we should waste no time wallowing self pity, maka kita pun keluarlah dari kegelapan tu and mencari hidup baru. What is there to be serik about? 

I received few proposition in my time. Ada yang I betul-betul suka...tapi dalam suka-suka, rupanya dia ada orang lain juga. Bila you dah sayang...at times you either didn't realised or refused to see things thats coming that has hazard potential. Ohh this is when ada orang bagi nasihat, don't go in in love giving 100%, simpan la sikit kot-kot tak jadi and then you have like 10% to get by after that. 

Nasihat ni memang la bangang. Ke you tak tahu yang dalam hidup berlaki ni, kalau laki kita tak dirampok orang, dia akan diambik tuhan. So, dari mula sampai your timing is up, you nak hidup dalam insecurity ke?

Or, on another view of life, can't you just enter into a relationship resigning to the possibility that kalau takdir jodoh you lama, lama lah dia and kalau sebaliknya, redha sajalah.Jangan lah jadi macam Awie uols, dah buat silap, boleh pulak ngaku dia kita mandrem. Pigidah mabuk!

Well, tu kalau kita terlampau berhati-hati dalam hidup dengan laki. But what about doing something you really like in life? ----(beli handbag tak kira)

Can you not follow your passion without having to think about what if...what if ? 

Perhaps, following a passion is just the wrong way to phrase it. It sounds like it’s there in the world fully formed, you just have to dig it up under the right bush. Really, you have to foster a passion. You have to actively put some work in and try things, and try them for a little while, and get into them, and then you switch. Part of grit is actually doing enough exploration early on, quitting enough things early on, that you can find something that you’re willing to stick with. So I don’t know that there’s an easy prescription then for telling people how exactly to do that. But I think one misunderstanding, which is very dangerous, is to suggest to people that passion just falls into your lap, and it’s love at first sight. 

No, bukan macam tu ya...

Maybe, what we should do is not to be too cynical in life. Shit, happiness, grief etc etc..pleasant or unpleasant is part of a whole life package. 

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Wardina

Or must we call her Setazah Wardina now?

Our path crossed many, many years ago. Wardina was a different person back then. Even one of my crew who knew her personally (sebab depa dua ni satu sekolah lah agaknya, I pun dah tak hengat) kata Wardina is not as innocent as she looks.

Of course la, kepulauan Acheh telah berubah setelah Tsunami. Dan Wardina pun berubah juga. Kearah yang lebih baik. Alhamdulillah.

I stand by my thoughts that, agak payah nak maintain outlook serupa Prof Muhaya kalau kita ni dulunya adalah Nabila Huda. Iskk...tabbaik I gunakan NH sebagai contoh tapi kalau uols ada cadangan nama gadis-gadis liar, meh la kasik I. Liar ni tak bermakna jahat ya. Hidup kurang boundary saja...makna nya, set yang tak berapa nak kisah untuk menjaga hati orang sangat. 

Macam Setazah Abby Adidas pre laki baru lah. Dalam pada nak memaintain image Islamic, terlepas juga sifat pemarah, pemulut lepas dan kurang berfikir nya tu. 

So, what's up about Wardina?

Wardina lamented about having privacy in relationship. She said kalau dah tido sekatil and etc etc, how come phone or password FB email cannot share. She said, semua pasangan kena tahu. She say, your phone is who you are...(ishh..tatau lak I yang I berchenta dengan Iphone 6s Plus hik hik), your partner deserves to know who you are, who you talk to and what you talk about. 

Kesian laki Wardina. But saying this, maybe laki nya pun macam dia. Share sodalam bini dimasa-masa darurat gittew.

Meh sini I nak bagitau uols, kalau ikut kan I lah...every person deserves some sort of privacy even between partners and spouses. Well, why not kan? Kita tengok lah privacy tu yang macam mana...macam, kalau kita ni jenis kaki gossip tapi partner kita tak berapa berkenan kita pokpek hal orang, maka terpaksalah gossip session tu dibuat dibelakang dia kan? 

Ke Wardina ni ada trust issue? Because it is so apparent dia menngunakan right to access privacy lakibini untuk meng cover yang dia tu lack in trust. Based on her post, she just wants to own his entirety. Her statement does strike me as coming from someone who only view her partner as her property and not manusia. Macam insecure kan? 

I was in a serious relationship before...ada jugak orang tu sorok-sorok main phone dia dan I pun lebih kurang gak lah...tapi takdalah pulak sampai nak cehck messages dia. I ni pulak bangsa who needs my own space and privacy at certain times. Rimeh lah kan kalau dok kena interoogate semedang. 

Ada benda yang kenkadang kita tak share dengan partner...well, kita kan tahu benda yang dia suka or tak suka.  I am sure my mother hides things from my dad and he does the same. Especially rahsia keluarga or stories about children yang akan mengundang kemarahan bapaknya. 

Ada pulak yang dapat partner yang memang tak nak ambik tahu hal apa pun melainkan kalau dia ada berkepentingan. 

Ke Wardina membuat posting tu untuk menyindir laki dia? Manalah tahu kan....she speaks in general kononnya tapi ditujukan secara keras dan tajam kat laki nya sendirik. 

I tell you, kalau spouse you rasa you patut tahu, dah lama dia include kan you. Why don't we view this 'unspoken privacy request' sebagai penyelamat kepala hotak dari memikirkan benda yang kita tak patut pikir. Like, elok la kita tak tahu...so kita takyah lah pikir.

But kalau hobi you mengambik tahu apa activity laki/bini, nak tahu siapa kawan FB, kawan email or dengan siapa dia dia bercakap..you buat lah. Nescaya masa you nak berkawan dan melihat dunia pun akan berkurang sebab you dok lah nak menjaga tepi kain spouse you. 

Sekian. 

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Open

Ketua Jabatan I dulu selalu suruh kitorang baca email, especially email yang boleh mengundang sakit hati, dua tiga kali. Boss kata, don't jump the gun yet, read again later...you probably look at it differently.

Selalunya betul. Well, I kan suka psychoanalyse. Word by word kadang2. Ambil kira perasaan dan situasi masa I tengah baca tu. Sometimes between us colleagues, clients and other healthcare professionals, we go locking horns too. Just because dalam review meeting clash, pastu kalau orang tu hantar email ka, buat statement ka, mesti kita akan emosi or defensive semacam. 

Kadang2 ya..dan kadang2 tak. Dengan homputis pun adakalanya kena pakai konsep husnodzon jua. Untuk tidak menjadi lebih gila. 

Tadi I terbaca satu posting FB, katanya, bangsa Melayu ni rugi adalah kerana malasnya membaca. Kita hanya rajin baca pesbuk. Baca update group sana sini yang kenkadang tak membawak hasil. Macam I lah, suka nau tengok update abangkak Ajuwan Ali, pasti dapat sakit hati yang chronic. Some of us suka baca menda-menda gitu. Pastu sakit ati. 

Ada benarnya kata-kata pompuan tu. Kita melayu ni suka benar tarik sodalam lelaju sampai bersimpul-tersimpul pastu naik anginnnnn. Takdanya konsep, agree to disagree. Especially bab-bab agama. Kalau Tok Guru kata camtu, kita ikut ja lahhh. Nama kita nak cari 2nd, 3rd opinion...jauh sekali. We don't care if its sahih or not. Kalau kena dek kita, maka kita pun iya kan aje. 

Macam kes anjing la. Kalau ikut Bani Melayu, perkataan anjing tu ja dah haram. Belum lagi ko nak belai-belai anjing tu. As if when you nampak anjing, ko bunuh la dia. Macam2 argument. Can bela, for but keselamatan only...as in, kalau ko bela anjing tu, ko takyah bagi makan meh? Ko tak yah praise praise anjing tu..gosok kepala dia cakap terima kasih la nakk jaga reta menda aku? Ko hengat boleh ka anjing tu ko layan cam Kunta Kinte?

Nohh. Anjing haram. Babi haram. So perangilah anjing dan babi. 

You remember pompuan G25 yang cakap pasal all this pegawai pencegah maksiat cannot just pi skodeng pembuat-pembuat maksiat? Something in the line, privacy is privacy. But the pembaca terus la naik hangat pungkok kutuk dia lah, even making rape threat. Well jantan, tu lah dia kalau nak tunjuk kuasa kat pompuan...buat ugutan yang rupa cenggitu. But read again...apa katanya. Did she say she condone maksiat? Far from it. 

In view of current affairs in Malaya over religious authorities (and self appointed experts) behaving as though they are THE ABSOLUTE authority on religion and have the right to dictate on how others 'must' practise their faith. The delights of religious bigotry, masked as righteousness.

Pastu dengan konsep puasa Bani Melayu yang terang-terangan salah...takleh jual makan time siang hari la...macam nak encourage orang makan curi-curi and kononnya tak respek bulan puasa. 

Puasa ni kan,  is about self control, not about other people respecting your puasa. This is the same as expecting the non Muslim to paham-paham bahawa seksanya kita berpuasa and respect bulan puasa by not eating infront of fasting folk. Kalau diorang abstain, their sentiment is greatly appreciated. If they don't itu u punya hal, not theirs. 

Kuat nya iman kita kann....sampai orang nak makan depan kita pun tak boleh. 

And for those yang tak boleh langsung puasa? Cannot eat lah?

Then we have makanan sunnah. Air zikir what have you. Ayam terapi Quran? I am sure that ruqyah healing can't be outsourced to dead chicken!

Talking about people exploiting religion kann for commercial gain but yang tukang membeli tu pun, satu hal la jugak. Kalau bersambut tu, maknanya makin adalah supply untuk ayam-ayam terapi Quran tu kan? Kitanya tak baca Quran tapi ayam yang nak masuk perut kita kena dibacakan Quran. When people say 'have faith' , I'm pretty sure it's not the sort of short cut faith you can buy off shelves and at a pasar. 

There's only one way to having an otak/minda tajam, that is to work hard at educating yourself, continuously. Read things that challenge you, have meaningful discussion and debates dengan orang yang equally knowledge hungry. 

Kenapa kita tak open minded eh? Ke kita yang sekat keterbukaan kita ni? Kenapa bila ada orang opinion lain sikit kita terus jadik serigala jadian?

Kita nak apa sebenarnya?  


Thursday, June 09, 2016

Update Yang Emo

There are people on my Facebook who I am sorely tempted to unfriend but kenot la kann...ehh, boleh sebenarnya kalau I ni bersemangat waja to deal with aftermath text messages. Dan juga pertanyaan kengkawan lain. I am just lucky that numbers of relatives tersangatlah kurang because of my strict policy.
 
Sesuai dengan kedewasaan rakan-rakan sebaya I, of course mereka yang dulunya adalah bohsia sekolah sekarang dah jadi ibu dan isteri mithali yang mengupload segala benda yang dimasak nya kat dapur dengan caption semi-puaka, ala-ala nak kata la, air tangan dia lagi berkat and not some lauk you buy outside etc etc.
 
Eh baii..elok lah kalau ko masak for your family but must you taruk caption yang bakal mengecikkan ati kengkawan yang takdak choice terpaksa beli lauk or import leftovers from umah makpak diorang?
 
Tu belum lagi part part nak bagi education kat anak...discussion among themselves on what is good and I dengan rakan-rakan sekapal yang lain nganga ajalah...ye lah, apa nak diajar..French lesson ke bahasa Arab kat anak meow I tu? Pastu debate la pulak sesama mereka, yang one think that Bahasa Arab tu maha penting la sebab tu bahasa Quran la etc etc. Mind you anak baru 5 tahun. Sakit gigi pulak I baca argument diorang...nak mencelah kang dikata nya I ni tak tahu apa sebab I belum ada anak. Then sorang lagi masuk dengan recipe-recipe macam mana nak disiplin anak (without knowing what I do)
 
Tah la uols. Yang i tahu and I think kita semua pun tahu, there is learning appropriate at every stage. Brownie points is good, but biar yang wajib dulu kita ajar. Respect, tolerance, kindness, discipline. Kalau anak you set-set yang tak reti hormat tuan rumah bila jadi tetamu, nak salam tangan pun tarik-tarik muka but you pulak heboh nak masukkan dia kelas Kumon, maka I yang takda anak ni lagi tahu mana arah nak ditunjuk kat anak you yang telah dididik menjadi anti sosial.
 
Kalau anak you set set yang buat umah orang macam umah dia, first lesson, ko cubit ja anak ko tu sampai biri bijik kundang! Kalau anak ko tantrum sebab tak dapat main Aipek ko backhand barang sedas...ni semua lah kalau reasoning versi parents homputis dah tak jalan...terapi hanger jawapan nya!
 
See, uols sebagai parents memang la banyak cabaran hidup. Dengan anak la, dengan laki la...but there are things yang nampak tak penting but vital for self-happiness.
 
Going off tangent lagi, I have wanted to list this things down for a while now. My mental notes. Something to remind me what is so important to wake up for, to live each day towards.
 
Too many people now live to escape their reality. We do it every day...kalau hari ni hari Rabu, you keep saying ahh can't wait til Friday and then weekend. Macam lah weekend you menjanjikan hari bahagia. Why can't you just live the Rabu without wanting it to finish quick? Why can't you just create a good day for you, a good reality that you don't need to keep escaping. I am so guilty of doing it. When thing is pressing in Malaya, I can't wait til the day I am in KLIA checking out KUL. Why can't the life you lead is good to make you smile eh?
 
Then this penyakit of judging too quickly or in FB now, sharing it too quickly. Takdalah nak check benda tu masuk akal ka, bodoh berdengung ka. Well to aspire not to judge is perhaps impossible kan? Judging should happen after the facts have spoken.  But what is key is to understand that it has to be factual and that even facts can change a picture as it evolves, redefine by perspective and more information. Still kalau bercanggah pendapat, why can't we do it kindly?
 
Another thing that is bothering me slightly is just how less exclusive time we have with ourselves dan memberi peluang kepada orang meng assume kita yang macam-macam, kan? Ke I yang paranoid? I sebenarnya kan uols...tersangatlah anti social. Ada masa memang I tak nak ada dekat orang langsung. Sometimes buat menda sensorang ni selamat. Ye lah, kita tak tahu apa hal kita yang kawan kita dah pi broadcast kat orang. Ada manusia yang take pride menjadi bahan berita sensasi, yalah dia lah yang tahu semua benda...sapa gaduh dengan siapa etc etc. Now and again, kalau kita dah tahu diri kita ni bakal menyakitkan hati orang, we can always do it alone. Not needing to to have someone else to keep me company out in the world. Relish lah...the freedom of eating alone, tengok wayang sensorang or just allocate one or couple of days being thoughtless that you aren't worried about anyone else. Ada branik?
 
To those friends yang I dah kurang bercakap atau dah tak bercakap langsung...it has come to the point that I have to be comfortable with the idea that my truths may be wrong. Looking back, I have dissapeared from certain radars. At that time I have to..sebab sakit ati. Thinking back maybe it was stupid but hey, had you care about my feeling you wouldn't have reduced me to feeling upset. So I tak cakap dengan you...dengan suku sakat you. Tu belum lagi yang I terperangkap dalam crossfire yang tah hapa-hapa lantas mendapat reputasi pembawa mulut. Too often people argue because they have different perspectives of what is truth. You think you were wronged but others around you just see that you've been a big crown Diva. This is rooted in the almost arrogant belief that almost all humans have yang bahawasanya ko je la yang betul. Ni satu peringatan untuk I lah ni...that I cannot be arrogant enough to think that I am infallible and correct and think lesser of you. Walaupun ada ketikanya dalam situasi tu I lagi pandai dari you...payah ni...especially dengan aruah Kiah. (has she got new name now kannn hence the aruah)
 
To my remaining friends yang after all that happened and we are still on talking terms...sebelum topic gunung berapi seterusnya. The gunung berapi is the vital point in friendship, can we tahan the lahar? Trust me, all we want is to be remembered and known as that very nice person with all nice things that came out from our mouth.
 
Takde nya yang nak jadi laser Obiwan Konobi. Melainkan memang dia nak reputasi mulut bak halilintar. Elehh elok sangat ka?
 
So, hari ni saya sangat emosi. Di kejauhan ini kucing favouritie saya belum nampak jalan balik lagi. Pasal tu la menulis pun mood cam lahanat. Once upon a time I was alone and sad in that great big house and meow tu lah yang meneman I.
 
Doakan lah kucing I tu pulang....uhukk uhukk uhukk...
 
 

Tuesday, June 07, 2016

Takda Tajuk Yang Sesuai

Did you all notice that recently, makin ramai pulak para-para single (or re - singled) men (of the straight persuasion) their 40s today have the Peter Pan syndrome. Apa tu? Alaaaa...syndrome takmau tua la...tak mau grow up gittew. I recently discussed this with my friends and we raised the possibility that they are so because of their women empowerment. 

You know, some of this men ada bini garang, mak garang..or adik beradik pompuan yang garang..berkuasa..tak pun...they have women that did everything for them. Ohh batuk! So...because women have become so strong, that they have become conditioned to be weak.

Weak la sangat...blah la. Jantan nowadays or forever, memang pandai mencari excuse. Okay..firstly, don't read this post thinking that I am preaching feminism here. Not in this this one. But I menyampah betul dengan set-set jantan yang pick and choose when to lepas tangan ni...and, I jugak menyampah lah dengan para-para pompuan yang rasa they have to take it all in...sebab tak mau berdosa la etc. 

When you hear stories about wives yang making sacrifices for their family, bertebal muka just in time to jaga air muka laki but the laki tetap la dengan ego dengan taknak berlebih kurang nya, you wonder why that woman still want to stand by him. Here's one account of story yang sampai sekarang I tak faham, kawan I ni, financially dia dgn laki dia gak strapped juga, but life is doable. Live within their means la. Satu hari kawan I ni ter discover yang dia maybe mengandung. The stick is saying yes but belum jumpa proper gynae or GP lagi. Boleh pulak laki dia marah dia apasal termengandung.

Macam lah perbuatan mengandung tu boleh dilakukan secara solo ye tak? I cakap lah kat kawan I ni, kalau laki you yang takmau sangat beranak, why not dia up sikit protection dia i.e. pakai lah sarung. The laki takmau. Bab tu dia mau freehair pulak. The bini must put stop to all baby formation. Mangkuk betul. Yang lagi I tak paham, wife dia pulak yang berusaha sensorang to make sure dia jangan mengandung. And she didn't even komplen. Laaa, naik lemak la jantan kau!

Then kawan I yang sorang lagi ni...semua masalah rumah dia macam dia saja yang tanggung sorang. Macam dia saja yang kena sakit kepala pikir and the laki yang do as he pleases and at his own time. Sometimes I really think men amik kesempatan using agama. Ko tak dengar cakap aku ko dosa. Ko keluar rumah tanpa izin ko dosa. But dia tu keluar sesuka hati tak hormat perasaan bini, tak dosa meh?

Mana pergi nya jantan gagah perkasa yang handles everything? So its the woman's fault again? For being overly helpful nak membantu para swomi la kononnya and tanpa mereka sedari mereka telah menyumbang kepada pembiakan bacteria Peter Pan ni. I am not talking Peter Pan band Indon yang lead nya buat bideo lucahs tu ya. Kalau kita dapat laki yang Peter Pan ghopa tu memang lah bahagia hidup!

Personally I think it's just that the men haven't sufficient sense of responsibility nor maturity to take all the responsibilities just like their forefathers do, and instead of owning up to the fact and doing something to correct it, they choose to lepas tangan and dengan happy nya pi blame bini for everything. Even if the bini yang buat mistakes, but kalaulah pertolongan di offer oleh puak2 mengaku pandai ni tadi dari awal, kan bagus? Yang paling tak best nya jantan yang lepas tangan letting wives fought their corner, pastu bila shit hits the fan baru dia nak masuk ambil alih but yang paling jahanam, buat buat macam all problems have got worse pasal the the wives campurtangan and now he is coming in as a hero dan lagi menunjukkan kan wives depa nampak jahat dan bodoh. Bukannya dia nak support bini dia! This is essentially being man-children or erti kata lain nya..bola takda!

What worse is...some women allow this. As in..ohh you have got to make your men feel useful, raise your men because if you don't no one else will. Bongok tau ideologi cam gini. Nak jadi supportive or isteri mithali bior la bertempat. This in a way regresses women's issues.Laki kau tu adults tau, so act like it. I ni suka pompuan yang menyokong laki but stroking ego laki kau cenggitu, takkan ada nya hasil kak oi. Nak kata kau akan dilambakkan dengan meh permata...di servis 3 kali seminggu paling kurang, takkan ada la yang ko nak score mithali points sangat tu!

Lelaki terlebih gagah pun lain pulak motivation nya sekarang. Kegagahan perlu ditunjukkan dengan mencari bini sorang lagi. Nak lagi gagah, you make it to the point your 1st wife have no other choice but to redha to her fate. 

Kalau men nak counter attack, women yang never grow up pun ramai gak but since korang pun dah kata kami ni supposedly be the weaker sex so it's okay lah kan for us to remain dependent. 

Menyampah pulak I tulis pasal ni !

Saturday, June 04, 2016

Ni (Cerita Si) Kobis

Hey uolsss...salam Ramadhan ya...Makji uols ni akan berusaha sedaya upaya untuk tidak menambah saham dosa yang ada sempena bulan Remdan ni...harapannya.

Dan uols jua, cubalah bebawak tingkatkan tahap toleransi uols...kepada mereka-mereka yang tak berapa centre akal nya. Kasihani lah mereka uols...susah kenkadang nak tahu mana salah dan mana betul.

Alangkan kita yang tahu bawak keta kat lorong kecemasan tu salah, tak makei talipinggang keledar pun salah...tetap gak kita buat kan? So apakah alasan kita? Kecelaruan akal ni boleh terjadi bebila ja uols. 

Umumnya dah tahu hal Kak Hassanah. To all tudung-defiant mulalah start picking the obvious yakni, kalau dah bertutup litup camtu, you are bound to regulations yang ko takleh langsung buat salah. Nahh hambek. 

This is one puak yang I tak tahan nak hadap...you tak mau pakai tudung or tak reti...or any alasan yang you ada, no need lah buat disclaimer, pakai tudung pun jahat so buat apa pakai tudung? Wahh wahhh....free hair kau tu lesen besar lah nak buat perangai Lindsay Lohan time mabuk ke? As if pompuan pakai tudung kenot implicate themselves with almost anything but menjalani kehidupan mithali saja. They can't even have sex...kalau nak di ikutkan...cemtu lah. 

And kepada sipemakai tudung...dah ko pun satu lah kannn....bila dah buat keputusan menjalani hidup kearah jalan Islamic tu, cuba-cuba lah conform to the Islamic norm. Patutnya bila dah bertutup, nafsu nak buat reja-reja nak tak diapprove masyarakat sejagat ni, ko toksah lah buat. 

But hey...siapalah saya. Cuma fed up lah dengan tudungs-defiant serata Malaya yang secepat kilat ja buat komen cam harap macam nak meng excuse kan why they are still not covered. Ko dok dendiam boleh tak? Tak nak pakai cakap tammo pakai (lagi)...

So Kak Hassanah lied. Or was she confused? No, she made up a story. Real occurence but dia bagi tambah perisa sikit demi nak up kan diri dia. You think only Kak Hassanah doing that? Have you ever wonder if Kambing occurence is really a 'real' account? Ohh just wondering saja...kalau takda tokok tambah untuk menampak dia sangat dramatic atau committed dalam mendedikasikan hidupnya kat orang, maka elok lah. 

I made up stories too...and I hope cerita-cerita I dibaca dengan akal yang dan hati yang lapang. Macam cerita Titanic, si Pakwe menyelamatkan Makwe lalu volunteer untuk mati. Scene betul, kejadian betul tapi cerita lah nak bagi best sikit...so kasik mekap lah kan.

But of course we take things seriously. We cannot be lied to...it's okay kalau cerita dema bertukar 700 ratus kali dari derma ke tak tahu ke anak Raja Arab yang kasi or tah sesapa baik ati bagi...lied to through and through but we tak naik hangin pun. Kan? 

Kak Hassanah ni kann...meh belajar menulis cerita benar tapi diolah semula untuk kesesuaian tayangan. But bila I baca, she did. Tak nak nampak obvious, dia katalah family tu family orang puteh. 

So kesimpulannya, uols yang dok panggil dia penipu, yang sebetulnya Kak Hassanah ni bongok dalam menipu. So what do we hope to achieve from reading her stories? If you ask me, kalau uols ni bukan loyar pencari maklumat mahupun polis untuk mencari bukti yang dia tu penipu, elok ja lah uols fokus kepada benda-benda yang dia nak sampai kan..yakni, kalau ada anak, mak bapak or sesapa yang nervous naik flight, ni lah preparation nya...bersedialah belajar teknik menundukkan rasa nervous dengan menyentuh ubun-ubun si pengamuk. Siap ada ajar doa dan ayat2 doa...

Uols, diantara kita, ada sesiapakah yang se terrer Kak Hassanah dalam membaca ayat-ayat penenang ni? kalau ada pun, boleh ke ingat semua kalau dah panic cenggitu?

Like I said, Kak Hassanah is neither expert nor pathological liar. She writes. She is good at it. Bila dah kena kepung dengan uols, dah kena hentam...maka dia pun menulis lagi kisah yang agak bodoh jua. She honestly think that could answer everything and get that all sticky gums on her fingers. 

Kak Hassanah apologised (but not really) and claimed that she made that up as a publicity stunt to gain attention for her justified beef with Aiman Banana ke hapa namanya. 

Laaaa....kak ehhh. Lenkali kak call saya lahh...

And of course by now uols read the communication between her and Aiman Banana penuh dengan pseudo-religious phrases (wahh caiyokk) 

Terus Kak Hassanah kena cop double psycho. Haihh la. Cepat betul uols nak diagnose orang kan? Uols pernah ka jumpa real psychopath? Tak berapa cerdik dan psychopath beza besar tau uols. 

My question is..why was this such a big deal? People would do anything to get attention kan? And of course it has nothing to do with what they're wearing. If you ask me, pemakaian extreme padang pasior ni bagi yang salah nawaitu nya ialah untuk mencover penipuan yang lebih besar. Alaaa macam kakak kita yang sorang tu...dalam pada dia bertutup litup dia masuk sukan panah berkuda laa...dia menjalani hidup maha happening laaa..Kiah buat sambal hitam Pahang, dia uplift gambo tu kata  dia yang masak.

And of course again we take it seriously demi nak mengexpose 'fenifuan' dia, kita bukak pulak account untuk show her up. You...takda reja dah ke? Tak ke obvious dari mula yang cerita nya tu hanya rekaan untuk menjamu nafsu pembacaan you? 

Macam I lah uols, suka benar follow IG Ajuan Ali. Abang Ajuan dok maki hamun caruts segala melayu hanjeng, siap upload mana dia makan tanpa melayu hanjeng, pi sopping kat Giant susun barang kat till pun dia kata tengok styel Diva AA yang bukan like some melayu hanjeng....hishh uols, banyak betul hanjeng dapat pahala dek dia. Dia tayang duit jual rendang dia yang tetap gak banyak tu dengan tanyan yang lemah gemalai...dia dok kata muka dia sesuci Nur tanpa mekap tanpa cucuk tapi pastu dia kantoi upload gambo dia powder muka dia...

Tu bodoh ke gila uols? 

Tapi kita kan manusia yang memerlukan hiburan. Uols anggap jalah mereka ni semua object object untuk kita ketawa.

Kak Hassanah dah mintak mahap...so dia tak takda dosa dengan uols. So uols yang kata dia macam-macam, mampukah nak mintak mahap?

Akhir kata..sayor kobis campur racik halus halus memang sedap uolss.

Thursday, June 02, 2016

Let's Judge A Book...

You all tahu kan...the trend now is to advertise your good deeds. I am in two mind about this sebab ada orang yang berbuat baik dan sebab dia cerita perbuatan nya maka I pun menumpanglah, as in I chip in where I could to support him..walaupun muka dia set set kominih bintang. 

But I am sure, ramai yang tanpa pesbuk tanpa tah hapa-hapa medium tayangan sosial, buat baik tolong orang tolong binatang tanpa loudspeaker. 

But again, manusia lately ni semakin sewel. Benda kecik sampai sanggup bawak cctv footage pi confront jiran pasal kucing orang tu slipped into your greens. Anjing terkuchil kat pokok majlis perbandaran depan umah dia dia boleh kutuk kau-kau masuk pesbuk. Hek lehh, ala-ala dunia ni ko punya sorang la kan...so you need reminder to restore your faith in humanity. 

I want to talk about one particular do gooder. To his groupies, he is an angels that turns every corners into bright lights. Sebab dia ni banyak lah buat activity benda yang elok-elok. However after following him and after ada first hand experience, he is as annoying as anak Menteri yang bela beehive dalam tudung and baru kematian laki setelah mengutuk ex colleague Mak Piah tua. Maafkan saya...saya bersimpati you baru mati laki. Gigih you update IG you dalam kesedihan you ya amat tu. 

But this guy, yes I want to talk about him. To general public, he fancy himself as kambing. Quite apt lah if you ask me sebab, dia busyuk. Hik hik hik. Tak baik I ngata dia..dia sibuk berbuat kebajiakn nak mandi pun tak sempat, apatah lagi nak refresh aftershave. 

I for one takkan ada nya energy untuk membuat reja-reja dia. I hold my hands up. I admire his courage. What bugs me is that he has got too personal into it macam dia sajalah yang berfikir kearah menyelamatkan donia when other care less. In his own words, it is frustrating when people resist doing the right thing because they want to look important.

But people say, kebijaksanaan come naturally with maturity. Little boys and girls are competitive. Let's define what can be seens as competitive here. Competition nak buat baik..sampai terkeluar lah statement I wish I am dead so that I don't have to witness the destructions anymore. Laaaa hai. Cuba la ko kerja kat spital bila macam-macam kes masuk. Can you wish you be dead? Boleh dak kita insaf sikit yang tangan kita ada dua dan kederat kita hanya sebanyak apa yang kita ada...

To him also, the world moved on while we stood still, while waiting for one to play catch up. His analogy about world current condition adalah memualkan if you ask me.Since when dunia ni perfect? Can't you just be thankful because you're there, exist to turn the world around? 

Why does the world need to know how you wept about your failure to help? I have never realise that your crown is bigger than an average Diva. 

Kawan I, Monica Lewinsky bukan nama sebenar tapi perangai sebenar adalah lebih kurang, organise something at her workplace and nak lah memotivasi kan anak-anak buah nya supaya hidup ni kena ada tujuan dan hidup ini bukan hak exclusive. So Monica pi la approach si Kambing ni. The chronology from the first text message of approach sampai cenderahati bertukar tangan...can be sum up to this.

There is courtesy when asking for help. The minimum is to make it as easy as possible for the person helping you. To minimise their inconvenience. And to be polite when communicating with them as you inconvenience them. I think you failed on all counts. I am this close to just calling you a piece of *bleep*. Demanding macam haram. Pastu tak explain apa kau nak. You think people is a mind reader. A mind reader with nothing else better to do than to try and guess what will tick your boxes.

Here's the right criteria kalau nak jadi social worker. Vulnerable people either come to you or you have to find them. Not many will let off their guard and ask for help. Your work is to help them, in whatever way fits.

Some help that you offered may not appeal to them. I tell you bila orang dah jatuh terduduk ni, semangat pun ambik masa nak naik. Kerja kita bukannya nak jadi pandai telling them how to run their life. There's time and place nak jadik life coach ni. If theres a risk of death by hunger, you feed them. You can teach them how to fish later (that if they fancy it)

You cannot fixed people. If you help them, let it be about them...not you. Tak payah nak emo. If you think you are underappreciated, walk away. You have give enough. 

You must not turn people into you, or think like you do. 

Because if you have start to moan on how cruel, difficult the job is...mind you, job that you choose to do voluntarily then maybe there's something else that you're after.

You are not in for the glory. Perhaps you just enjoy listening to the big clap, mention and songs of praise non-stop.

Ke memang tu yang you nak?


Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Handbrake...And When To Pull It

Seorang kawan I ni pernah cakap yang anak nya yang seorang ni adalah amat payahhhhhh untuk dibela...hih hih hih...

Sebab dia tahu apa kerja I dia pun mintak lah pendapat, apa yang patut dia buat..ye lah, dah nama nya anak, nak buang tak leh. Always, always mak pakkk jugak yang kena pick up the pieces kan?

The anak is from a failed marriage. Marriage that failed from the word go...berantakan masa anaknya dalam perut lagi. Bapak terajang mak, mak pun bukannya the type who will take it lying down. So budak ni memang takda contact dengan bapak nya sebab dah berperang besar, dan of course la masa tu macam-macam tuduhan keluar, bapak nya kata budak tu bukan anak nya etc etc.

But all was well for the mum. Mak nya tetap meneruskan kehidupan macam biasa sebab dia bukannya dependant kat laki and to her, kalau laki tak nak ambik tanggungjawab she can just soldier it on alone so ala-ala tak harap la muka laki nya. 

Over the years budak tu membesar dengan....pada dasar nya elok lah tapi kerap lah juga menyakitkan jiwa mak nya. Sekolah memain, ala-ala hidup tanpa arah lah gitu. Bila dah tak tentu arah, dia pun salahkan mak nya sebab katanya mak nya have never been there for her...mak nya heboh dengan anak dan laki baru that kind of things...

Of course these are not true but biasalah, bila ko dah rasa macam hampeh dan taknak ambik credit, ko salahkan lah orang lain ye tak?

But like I cakap tadi, anak ni takleh nak dibuang. Macam mana marah pun, bila budak tu dah melungkup, mak dia la yang kena pi ambik. Yang mak dia pulak agak pandai lah nak ajar anak dia dengan cara cara tough love ni, but as a mother, you tahu anak you tu kedegilan dan ke terrer an nya tu setakat mana..so dalam pada anak dia berlagak bravado macam reti la nak mengharungi dunia dengan kandungan garam dalam badan tak banyak mana, mak dia tahu yang anak dia ni idok lah can rise up to the challenge.

Bebaru ni anaknya dah membuat onar..dengan anak orang lain. Berkeras budak tu mintak dikahwin kan dengan boipren nya yang ala-ala duit cukup nak makan petang aja. Diugut lah kepada sang emak, if you try to break up us, you will not see me again. Camtu lah kot. Logika nya kalau dibagi kahwin satu kampung tahu budak tu dan laki nya akan menambah susah mak nya. 

Bertambah sakit lagi jiwa bila boipren anak nya pulak membuat statement yang ekceli, I ikut ja, anak you yang berfeeling perigi. Babi.

Sebagai kawan I cakap lah...I ni tak reti bagi nasihat. Ye lah..menjadi mak ni dan membela anak pompuan ular tedung selar jadian ni bukannya specialty I. But here's my thought.

Anak you memang sedari dulu akan blame you on her shortcomings, so what is new there kan? What do you do? You picked her up. Dia tuduh you jahat pasal tu bapak nya lari and bapak nya tak ambik pusing pasal dia pun you telan jugak. Padahal dia tahu betapa haramjad nya bapak kandung nya tu. Budak ni pun pemain politik kotor jugak. Of course over the years dia berjejak kasih dengan bapak nya yang dah turned over the new leaf dan berbini dan berfamily baru. Bila dia tengok betapa bahagianya apak dia dengan family baru, dia salahkan mak dia...dia tengok adik beradik belah bapak dan mak nya doing well dia salahkan mak nya, kata mak nya memang tak support dia sesungguh hati etc etc.

I told my friend ni, I rasa anak you tahu apa yang dia buat as in menyakitkan hati you because she knows you will take it. Awat dia tak pi memberontak kucar kacir kan hidup bapak kandung nya?

Ko ada beranikk? Idok. Semua orang keliling hidup dibumi yang nyata kecuali kawan I ni. But really mother cannot be blame because hatinya tak sekeras tahik lembu yang orang negara sinun pakai untuk buat rumah. And macam yang I cakap tadi....bila anaknya dah tergolek gelantang, anak nya akan balik gak kepangkal omaknya. 

I said, kalau I jadik you...I will let her have her own way...but you must now pull your handbrake. What you mean? I mean, dia nak kahwin kan? Bior dia. Send her to her dad sebab orang tu ja yang boleh kahwin kan dia. You said, you bagi blessings and because she want this very much, she must now do it on her own. Mother will not chip in to something she didn't approved. Seketul seketul script I ajar omak nya...if you invite I will come. But you're on your own and if you need me, you know where to find me. 

Perang besar...anak berlagak victim, bapak yang baru jadik mithali pun termakan cakap anak and cakap  to the ex wife kenapa kijam sangat dengan anak sendiri..

Hek elehhh...

I told my friend, anak you tak sedar yang she needs you more than anything so biarkan dia. Enough is enough...you ada anak lain yang memerlukan good energy you. Kang tak pasal2 you bercerai berai dengan laki baru, anak-anak you merajuk pasal you banyak buang masa dengan budak tak sadau diri tu...so, enough la. You have done more than you should.

Apa moral nya posting ni? Takdak langsung. I am telling a mum to let go. I rasa anaknya jahat sangat and patut diajar dengan jahat juga. 

I cakap dengan mak nya, stop drilling your brain finding reasons why your baby is turning that way. How can you know? Ko dah besarkan budak dengan kasih sayang, hantar ngaji..hantar segala tempat...bagi apa yang patut dibagi, last last baru ko perasan yang selama ni ko bela ular tedung. Oleh itu I sangat menentang bila orang kata, selagi kita ni tak kahwin, sedara lelaki and bapak kita lah yang kena tanggung segala musibat yang kita buat.

Hey, pandai pandai je kata dosa tu transferable kan?  Patut nya bila anak pompuan tu tak berlaki, nafkah dia yang ko kena tanggung. Bab nafkah tu pandai pulak oostard retard ni lari sebatu.

Okay, that is an argument for another day. 

Friday, May 27, 2016

Update

Heyy uolsss.....

Uols anggaplah blog ni ala-ala rencangan Kilauan Emas ka, Gegar Vaganza ka..yang hanya hot dimasa-masa tertentu...sebab masa nak menulis kian ciput adanya. 

Anatara sebab kurangnya waktu ialah, waktu yang ada dibazirkan dengan menyeksa hati dan fikiran sendiri. I wish someone have warned me about Malaya selepas tahun 1998. Selepas kejatuhan Nuar Berahim, keluar masuk jail, Malaya menjadik semacam Timor Leste sebelum gencatan senjata. 

Entah lah uols. Nak dikutuk berlebihan, tu tempat tanah tumpah darah. So kita bersabar jelah ya.

So..what's not new to tell? 

Bebaru ni ada kawan call I. Kami ni tak lah rapat, harapkan like-like photo kat FB ja dan komen sesikit kat each others postings. Berjanji nak mengopi serupa janji BN dalam pilihanraya....you know, the promise and plan you made to get you by. To sit down for the actual coffee tuhan je lah yang tahu bila.

But she actually wanted to moan about this mutual frens of ours yang katanya telah mem bad mouth nya kat kengkawan sekeliling. See, I tell you..nak badmouth orang ni berlaku dimana-mana saja. To uols yang dok oversea toksah lah dok rasa baguih uols tak bermentaliti Malaya. Takyah lah nak buat statement iols tak kawan lah orang Malaya or komuniti Malaya sebab reja deme mem badmouth orang ja tak habis-habis.

You are actually one of them bad mouthers nya kenkadang...so, we cannot actually generalise geographical locations. Kalau you ada mulut yang yang masih berfungsi and you pulak tengah sakit hati dgn si polan dan sipolan, bila ada safe opportunity, sure punya you akan vent kemarahan you sepatah dua kata, ye tak?

Some people just cannot distinguish the difference between badmouthing and venting. This is when the pengambil kesempatan strikes. Let's see, I could have get very unhappy about A yang juga BFF I. Ada jugak perangai A yang menyakitkan hati and annoys the hell out of me. Of course I need to vent about it. I think if you are unhappy about something you vent. Venting about how you feel doesn't make you a hater. Sometimes a friendship is worth so much that kalau you nak confront kawan you tu risiko nya you bergaduh besar. So vent je lah dekat kengkawan you yang lain. The good kawan is your good listener and they will try to calm you down and going hellbent trying to make you see beautiful sights of your annoying BFF. But the kawan yang mengambil kesempatan could have just conveniently terlepas cakap kat your BFF yang you tengah sakit hati dgn dia. This are the babis in disguise. 

The pengambil kesempatan are like traitors....because macam happy pulak tengok orang bergaduh. 

Perhubungan manusia ada pasang surut nya. Ada hari kita okay, we swallow all the bad jokes, tease or even criticism melampau tapi membina. I have that moment too. Days that I feel okay about stuff. The next day, benda sikit pun boleh meletop dan bila dah meletop, benda yang kita dah tutup sebelah mata pun kita boleh lahar.

Kesudahnya, kawan I ni telah bergaduh berpatah arang dgn kawan kami yang disyaki mem badmouth nya. Sad thing was the badmouthing was true, so this friend of mine decide to confront the badmouther. It was all just venting business that went out the wrong way and of course, the pengambil kesempatan yang pergi menyampaikan. 

So I cakap dgn this friend, how significant is this friend to you? How much are you hurting? Of course la bila kecewa, semua keluar..how could she do this to me...I did this..I did this for her...blahblahblah. 

Here's what I learned...good friend will always be there to help, because that's what friends do. Good things is for you to remember. Well, ala-ala kalau nak buat jahat berlebihan pun kita kena ingat balik yang ada jugak budi orang tu kat kita. Disagreement can happens tak kira masa dan tempat. Just because you have accepted help you're expected not to disagree? Well, that's not going to happen. 

I have strings of bad luck and bad moments recently. I can't help to think ini balasan I ada tersakitkan hati orang. See, we don't always know. Maybe ada orang rasa teraniaya dengan perbuatan I...and dia tak nampak pulak contribution dia dalam masalah I dengan dia. 

There's time you think you've helped but others don't think it like that. Payah tau. You know when you tak dapat gaji, you rasa boss you dah aniaya hidup you. But part you tak buat kerja and apa yang disuruh, bab tu you lupa pulak. 

So moral dari cerita diatas..is know your boundaries. If you are between the two elephants, stay neutral. Let the elephants vent. Venting is allowed you know. Badmouth is not. If we wanted to end the friendship, we'd have just done it directly and straight away rather than complaining to other friend in private. 

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Hit And Miss

Uolss sure tahu pasal cerita Awiek dan bini baru nya kann? Alaaa...mestilah tahu pasai kluor sokabar. Cerita Awiek dengan bini nya yang ini seems to be in headlines mostly for unsavoury reasons.

Memulanya cerita pasal Awiek terkantoi sebab ...well, bini nya yang ini adalah cawangan kedua tanpa SSM registration. Tau tau ada orang hantor gambor. Maka isteri pertama pun...err, err..nasib baik lah bini pertamanya bukan macam Kiah and Awiek will not live to see the morrow. Sebagai pompuan yang tertipu, ya lah kauu...kau dah memberi segalanya, korbankan kerjaya etc etc...sebab nak jadi isteri dan ibu mithali, stay out of the limelight, hari-hari dihabiskan dengan memasak, lipat sakit berbukit hahhhh....tetiba dihadiahkan dengan kawan baru. Tak kau rasa nak menangis tengah jalan?

I think I have written about it before...and masa tu reaksi bini pertama Awiek ni ialah...(ni versi palahotak I la ye) hahhh, ko nak menikah baru sangat...aku penat jaga anak, jaga tu jaga hini dalam rumah iniii..maka, sekarang akan ku kejar kebebasan yang ko deprive kan dari ku...si bini pertama yang muka selembut sutera tu pun membuat larian solo dan meninggalkan anak-anak kat Awiek. Well, why shouldn't she kan Kiah? Aku sampai tak sempat nak tukar bra dek jaga anak kau, ko sesedap ja kawin baru. 

Of course being a pig (oops) Awiek will not take this all lying down. Di kutuk nya bini pertama tu tak da tanggungjawab kat anak-anak dan lari macam tu aje...sambil nangis ayor mata boya dalam press conference nya. Laknat tol Awiek masa tu, pada hemat I. I don't know about you but kalo lah I yang ada dalam situasi bini pertama Awiek, memang I akan ajor Awiek ghopa tu. 

Maka rezeki cawangan kedua dapat naik carta setelah Awiek bercerai dgn bini pertama nya. Nak kata bini baru nya chantekk, well...if you are into voracious kind of look, well...those yang ghopa having a very eager approach to an activity, maka the bini baru fits the bill. Bini lama ala-ala gadis ayu. Susah tau nak faham jantan sebenor nya...uols kalo nak buat bini suka yang berciri bitch-bitch ke?

Dan rezeki ex bini pun dimurahkan Allah dengan mendapat laki yang ghopa-ghopa beriman dan bujang. Ye la...Awiek kan ghopa Ayahanda kawasan, nak kata dalam hati ada taman pun 114 kali gak la orang nak pikir. 

Awiek pun hidop bahagia dgn bini baru nya. Kakak bini baru nya adalah felakon watak garang dan dengarnya setelah all out in the open, dia pun lembutlah hati nak terima Awiek sebagai hadik hipar. Dan panas pun sampailah ke....tengahari pijor hangat, dimana keluar cerita, Awiek telah menerajang bini nya sampai patah riok terkelepet gittew. 

Banyak lah sides of stories yang kluar. Katanya Awiek naik hangin selepas mengetahui life savings nya dicopet dek sang bini untuk membeli beg mahal. Rasanya Awiek idok lah marah nau kalau duit perabis beli Corell, ya lah..cantik lah jugak hidangan meja makan...tapi beg mahal dapat kat bini nya sorang lah yang dapat melawa nya. Dengar nya depan bank pun dirembat bini baru nya tu. Ishh ishh...

Dan of course la adegan grievous bodily harm tu  menjadik kes polisi dan masuk mahkamah segala. OKT (Orang Kena Terajang) nak tuntut cerai. Awiek the OTT (Orang Tukang Terajang) kata dia akan cerai bila dia dapat collect balik duit dia..wah wahh..sial nya ko jantan.  

Dan bermulalah drama ya uols. Drama dalam IG, dalam media sosial, he says she says...his BFF says, her BFF says..gitu gamaknya sekarang ni. Tukang pemberi maklumat kenkadang lebih kari dari roti canai. Because OKT yang lari dari umah, maka dia taklah dapat jumpa anak-anak nya. Haaa...dah takdapat jumpa anak mula la kluor drama Ibu terseksa jiwa raga.

OTT kata OKT dah memandremkan nya sampai dia sanggup tinggalkan or buat lahanat kat bini pertama nya dulu.....hek elehhh, dalam keadaan dibawah pengaruh mandrem boleh lak kau pi cari tempat nikah kat overseas nun...and masa nak justify nikoh kedua tu idok lah ko bercakap ala-ala dalam trance ye dak? Siap dapat support bapak OKT katanya masa tu. OTT juga kata dia jumpa banyak barang mandrem dalam rumah nya...

Nak dijadikan cerita..nikah kat overseas tu taklah laku sebab registration kat tanah Malaya palsu kat tahapa bana. Wahh wahh..maka terlepaslah OKT scot-free dari menjadi isteri terseksa Ayahanda Awiek. 

Dan bebaru ni pulak, the kes telah selesai lah dgn OTT memohon mahap dan membayor denda 10,000. Makna nya kalau dah mohon mahap tu memang lah kome yang menerajang bini komer tu kan...awatnya khabor tak mengaku bersalah tu hari?

Disebabkan Makji uols kaki sibuk ni mengikuti IG wanita garang kakak kepada OKT tu, maka no prize in guessing where her allegiance lies kann...dan juga dia secara open menyatakan opinion nya kepada OTT...takat cakap kat IG la ya. Biasalah...hal rumahtangga, mesti ada sides. Tangan I nak saja komen kat IG ex SIL OTT tu yang..gamaknya, masa OTT dirampok dek OKT dari bini nya dulu, idok kah dia merasa bersalah memecah belahkan rumahtangga dan hati pompuan lain?

Uols rasa...setelah kita tahu sejarah silam OKT, nak kita menyibuk menderma simpati kita kat dia? Kalau I jadik wanita garang kakak OKT tu, I baik diam saja. Adik ko dulu rampok laki orang...so dah jadi camni, mungkin doa pompuan teraniaya..takpun doa anak tiri yang teraniaya gamak nya. Dah elok lah ko dapat jodoh kaki terajang camtu. 

Dan kepada Awiek, dah nama pun bini, duit meww duit keww la...agaknya OKT mintak baik-baik nak beli henbge ko tak kasik...dah ko simpan segala duit atas nama dia, maka tu technically duit dia la kannn?

Eh ehh...you both deserved each other lah. To OKT, you 'hit' the live of an innocent wife, ko main mata dgn Mat Motor kaki pukul ni, for what you are missing in your life right now, anggaplah ni semua pengajaran.

To OTT, I bet you are suffering the hit and miss thing the most. Makji hanya boleh kata....padannnnn muka kau nokkk.

Sekian.