Questions & Answers

Question 1. Cik Ruby, Tidakkkkkk.....saya bukanlah budak TKC.You got to be really pandai macam Dentist kat UKM tu or Nutritionist kat Nestle or Lawyer kat Wisma Denmark tu, if you nak masuk TKC. I ni tergolong dalam category TBP, takberapapandai and did not get 5a's in my standard 5 assessment test.So, bye bye TKC. Hello Sek Men IJ Convent, Jalan Datuk Bandar Tunggal.

Question 2. The Negeri Sembilan's Ruler, apparently married girls from the same household.Father...DYMM Tuanku Abdul Rahman wed Tunku Khursiah (Sister A), DYMM Tuanku Munawir wed Tunku Durah (Sister B) and DYMM Tuanku Jaafar wed Tunku Najihah (Sister C). Sister A,B and C father is Tunku Burhanuddin who is the son of Tuanku Antah. Although they have a same father, their omak mesti lain-lain.Biasalah...jantan bilo dah kayo, ramai bini eh.I think, Sister A and B, got the same mother while sister C is from the 2nd mother.Another fact that I know is Sister C's eldest daughter marries her eldest brother's (from their father's 1st wife) son.So, Cik Gee..hope this answers your question.

Question 3. Cik Noor, No, you do not inherit penyakit mental.It is very unfortunate to have a family member who suffers from Schizophrenia.But common cause is a chemical imbalance in one's body.Smoking cannabis may induce this, but you just don't produce schizophrenia babies just because your or your partner's or your forefathers has schizophrenia.From what you describe, your son may have Asperger Syndrome, but it is very early to tell for a 4 years old boy.Can I also tell you that I am not a qualified clinician thus I cannot diagnose any unusual behaviour.Behaviour and diagnosis are two separate entities.While a child should behave like a child much to their parents chagrin,we really have to let the nature runs its course.Anak yang lasak dan pelik perangainya tidak menjanjikan Anakku Sazali bila dia dewasa. With all the luck, he may transform into Raihan's boy. He is only 4, biarlah dia memecah pinggan mangkuk Cik Noor yang mahal-mahal tu and menerajang bapaknya.I would, if I could introduce a firm boundaries...as much as you want to love and educate your child, fact must beknown to a child is that you are the parents and you are in control.The problem with the newage and old age parents is they all suka benar buat comparison.Every children ada individuality, bak kata orang biar bersakit-sakit dahulu.If I may share, I am not a dreamchild either when I was lot younger. Apart from ada MCS (middle child syndrome), I shied away and isolated myself.But if I can now give you this advice, I'm sure I did not turn out bad.

Question 4. Oh Cik Aleeya, I cannot answer that question. And I don't think you can too.How long have you been married? 7 years? You can be married for 30,40 tahun pun still you can't understand the man who you have been sleeping next to.If you want a man who talk about their feelings, then lookout for a gay men.Men generally like to be and feel powerful and you hardly ever heard any problems from them.You can only see their sensitive side when they want something from you.They know how to attract their preferred audience...especially young naive girls who will feel so kesian yang they all tu berbinikan pompuan garang (kunun nya lah) macam Cik Aleeya.Too bad you found the text messages.That does not implicate an affair.Text messages and email can easily be misunderstood.We yang pompuan-pompuan ni pun kenkadang ada jugak mengantar email or text yang boleh tahan suggestive nya kat kengkawan jantan kita.What do we make of that? Affair kah? If you suspect that he is having an affair, then you should ask him.Buat apa tanya kat orang lain.Ingatlah, selagi dia tak memukul kita or mencuri duit kita, kalau dia nak menyundal sampai kena tangkap basah, biaq pi lah dia.This is the time you re invent yourself and show him what he will be missing if he messes about.Tak guna Cik Aleeya nak memeningkan kepala sampai dapat barah otak pun, baiklah semua tenaga tu digunakan untuk menjaga anak, menjaga diri dan bersuka ria.Tak gitu?

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