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Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Manusia Yang Berjenis-Jenis


Person Specification Number 1:-
This GP couple went holidaying in Algarve last month (or so) with their 3 young children and unfortunately, one of them went missing. What was reported is that both parents went out for a meal, left their kid’s unaccompanied (ni case confident gila-gila) and only to discover that their eldest daughter isn't where they left her. I can't even bear to think about budak-budak kecik yang hilang ni.Orang tua kalau went missing lain lah kan...not that we care less, but little people vulnerability is even more complicated, and after a while without familiar faces, haruslah menangis asking for mummy and daddy kan? Kesian sungguh! What strikes me hard is that both parents are well educated, enough not to trust little children to be left alone. But that happened, and now, nak blame both parents pun dah tak guna.Mana tension anak ghaib dekat nak masuk sebulan and to live with their guilty conscience lagi.Haruslah cikeding tak makan gamaknya....but, the two are strong enough to brave a Europe tour, extending their search mileage. Quite recently the two have been criticised. Many people wonder what the hell are they doing gallivanting around Europe in a private jet, in an act of what can be perceived as missing child search road show. I don’t have an opinion for this couple and if my child is missing, I don’t think I can face the world. (Pasal tu takde anak..agaknya..kalau ada, anak tu pun I boleh lupa letak kat mana) But maybe, this couple are the sort of person that is badly affected by their grief and that has caused them a total detachment from their feeling of loss. I have worked with this kind of person. They are so numb by grief and they can’t even recognise their loss.

Person Specification Number 2 :-
Two weeks ago, this newspaper that I regularly read is discussing Prince Azeem. He is the son of Sultan Brunei. He is very popular here (among the mega superstar) in his right. He is also the tabloids laughing stock. I can’t help to think that he maybe has some kind of undiagnosed special needs or he is just faintly weird. Anak teruna (yeah right!!!) Sultan Brunei ni…debab, ketot, rambut bercacak dan sungguhlah tak attractive. But, if you ask me, I wouldn’t mind that…just because my love can be bought with Bruneian Dollar (mata duitan aku ni) and although one find day, if he exceeded his marriage quota like his uncle, Pengiran Sufri, I can happily accept a divorce proposal and be compensated with millions. Money has never been an object for them Pengirans kan? 2 days ago, there was this documentary about him in Sky Channel, discussing his penchant of having celebrity friends and his way of paying for their friendship. I am so appeal to ask him personally, if money is really no object, is it really necessary to pay to have well known friends? He paid Michael Jackson 5 millions just to show his white face at his birthday bash…(bayar juta-juta, si MJ boleh balik cepat sebab sakit perut lak tu..) He bought Jerry Hall (janda Mick Jagger), Mariah Carey, and Usher ..to name a few, a gold pendant for friendship token. He went on and organized some tak perlu bash just to rub shoulders dengan mega superstar ni…Wah!!! I wonder if his status as a son of richest king is not popular enough to make him well known that he had to pay extra for publicity. Nak saja I recommend dia masuk Pop Idol ke, The X factor ke, bagi glamour kan? Maybe, he is dealing with his own grief (if not, memang ada learning difficulties) is not easy being the royal spare …and his mother is no longer the Pengiran Isteri. I wonder if after all that glitzy nights and parties, is he any happier?

Person Specification Number 3 :-
Pompuan ni, sungguh lah membuang masa semua orang dalam dunia ni. I can't remember knowing her on what accord. Who is she apart from Hilton heiress? Well, there was a raunchy home video but apart from that, why do we even know this girl? Kisahnya…pergi party…mabuk.Dalam kaya raya camtu, takdelah pulak nak pakai drebar…or naik cab. Dah mabuk, nak jugak bawak kereta.Hah..hambik kau.Kena saman. People like this often think that they are untouchable. Well, silap besar. People are just waiting in the first flash to have you on. She got done for driving while on suspension. Dah kena jail. She tried very, very hard to exempt jail…and in the end, tah hapa mimpi, arrived early for her sentenced. Kita ni, ingat dah nak mengaku kesalahan lah gamaknya kan? After 2 days, boleh pulak buat alasan, takleh dok dalam jail pasal claustrophobic? On top of that, tiba-tiba pulak dia ada STD, and being concern of others get infected. Pastu, nangis-nangis nak bunuh diri? Has she not had any sense of vanity at all? Or, is she just happy being the centre of attention? Maybe. There’s nothing distinguish about her at all, and this is what she really needs. The exposure to stand out from others. Tak kuasa kan? Hambik kau Paris Hilton, merasa kena hantar masuk jail balik.

Lastly, let's discuss the lalat. Some of us was made uncomfortable by the kedatangan lalat dalam blog. I even read about a blog written by someone, dedicating his hatred for one particular gay man. To allocate his time to write such a despicable post shows how this gay man is affecting his life.I like to think that those who writes blogs, stand by what been expressed, however sensitive.How we feel about things...and taking consideration of how others may feel.But if we don't, don't let anything gets in the way.If we brave enough to expose how we feel, and quite rightly, have to start taking things (as in what people may say) as a pinch of salt.And the readers too, sometime, nothing is personal unless, it was meant for you directly.We've seen people who asked others to have an open mind only to critisise the person who did have an open mind about things.We don't have to agree with offered opinion, but it is good to know that there is a different view about everything. I read this Indonesian man who wrote his feelings about Lina Joy. While the muslim feels so passionately about Lina Joy's issue, we have to allow others to give their view without ounce of persecutory feeling.If we can have the opinion about the Jewish in Israel, why can't they? Of course, we don't want to be known as nation yang boleh mengata tapi tak boleh dikata. Oleh itu, marilah kita kata-mengata. Let the lalat be. The fact that they read your blog is an accomplishment, walaupun pastu, they will make such comment as your blog boring lah..banyak dosa lah..hapa lah..., kan? Like the parliament, opposition's view can sometime be useful. Lainlah macam Kiah yang ada data protection issue tu...kan Kiah kan?

8 comments:

Cik Kiah Kidman said...

Esah oi, ko tau, si lalat aku tu sebenarnya tengah tersentap ngan aku tau...tapi blog aku sibuk nak baca. So childish you! Tapi ni macam kes cintan cintun, i benci you tapi i sebenarnya rindu...kan kan?? Koser aku!

Lee Novotny said...

Aiyyoo kalau bagi duit kat orang orang meskin Bangla kaa, Somalia kaaa, Nigeria kaaa..ada gak pekdahnya..ni bagi kat cikki hodoh yang gigi jongang tu..eee meluat haku!

betul tu..Bloggers Unite! We can write as we want...tapi jgn sampai berbaur perkauman udahler..that's something else kan???

dian said...

astaga
baju itam itu ka anak sultan brunei?
duina

Belladonna said...

Esah, buku Dina Zaman telah berjaya diobtained. Masih carik si Adibah.

Aku tak paham tang lalat ni. Datang tak diundang, pastu pandai je mengomen je entah hapa2. Cuba kalau diorang buat blog sendiri pastu komen blog tu sendiri, kan bagus?

Rockafella Gurl said...

ok.. 1st case, aku xde ape2 komen, but im more interested in 2nd case.. pd aku la, buang masa dia jer, sbb bila dh lama, kenal ke MJ tu dgn dia? pooorahh, xkn pya! skrg tgh byk duit.. besok2 Allah byr 'cash' jer dgn org riak camtu.

3rd case, mmg aku dh agak si mangkuk Paris Hilton tu laa.. sape lagi. Dah ler well known family.. memalukan btul. agaknya tak tau nk buat ape dgn duit dh byk. Mebi Paris tu xsedar, yg duit tu sume bkn dr hasil titk peluh dia sndri.. tu psal laa.

Last but not least, alaaa nok, blog aku pon ada lalat bising dulu.. bising & kutuk pon duk dtg baca gak kn? konsep sgt...

SpiNgemOrKS said...

akak!! sapa lalat tuh akak??? meh kita sembur ngn riksek.. sana UK ada jual riksek tak??

:: samasam :: said...

ru looking for the dina zaman book? laa x ckp pun, bole i post kat uols siap dgn autograph lagik tau ...

SpiNgemOrKS said...

sam kat i u tak offer pun!