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Friday, October 31, 2008

From Reading....Without Love

A classic love story.

Boy and girl went out together for the first time, 3 weeks after his first letter 'boleh kita berkenalan?' to her. In total, there's 7 correspondences between the two, 4 from him and 3 from her.

He took her to Warung Mak Su (tatau lah kalau warung ni masih wujud) for nasi lemak and teh ais.Girl got so excited she exceeded the curfew and in return, she was awarded with long lecture from Cikgu Kesumawati Scientist Tak Jadi tu....

The whole Maktab knew about their innocent affair...the boy played rugby and football for the school...he is also very good looking and he is one of not many boys in that year who wears 'Reebok' and Benetton shirt.Whoaaahhh!!!! The girl pun lawa...no other girl stand a chance with him.She is so lucky.

Cikgu Kesumawati lectures that evening or every other evening did not deter her one bit and the two will go on date whenever they can...kat Pekan, kat Library, kat kantin, exhanging glances kat dewan makan and kat padang...

Both boy and girl despite very,very intense relationship passed their SPM with flying colours...

But that spells the end of the affair...well, not immediately. Girl got posted to UK and boy is flying to OZ. The continue their dating episodes in Shah Alam.Boy was in Ausmat and girl was in NCUK.

Campur,tolak,bahagi and darab...the love story lasted for 6 years...girl blamed the distance (and her new beau who is also now her husband) and boy was brokenhearted.

So brokenhearted that he remain single for the next 5 years...

5 years ago he was pushing 30 an with mounting pressure from amma,appa,ayam and kambing...he agree to marry.No whirlwind romance...keluar makan 3,4 kali...tengok wayang 2 kali...she likes him and he think she is 'cute', what the hell...bercinta nak mampos pun tak jadi juga he thinks, he decided this time tak payah nak cinta-cinta and let's do it the old fashion way.

This the 5th year...after all these years.

Today, like our any other coffee dates...the boy (for the record...the handsome boy is no longer handsome) can't stop whinging, can't stop feeling sorry that his first love dumped him and can't believe how stupid he has been rushing into a love-less marriage.

But you made that choice..I said.You were happy...at least in the beginning...

Have you ever made a mistake that cost you a lifetime?

Hish...everybody made mistake lah...and what do you mean cost you a lifetime? You are divorcing her...and habis-habis pun,half of your wealth will be gone.That is hardly a lifetime damage lah kawan...

I can't believe her audacity...bloody golddigger....

Eh, can I give you a homework? What you want me to do?

Why don't you write down what happened between you and your wife fom the beginning...until the day you decided that you have had enough and decided to leave her....in a lurch, without any explanation apart from you're feeling out of love for her.

Then you decide...maybe she is not a golddigger after all. You ruined her life too.

Bongok!!! (What I said to boy...dalam hati laaa)


p/s Lokmang...meh lah kita sama-sama menangis dengar lagu Rossa tu...

11 comments:

:: rockafella yanz :: said...

ni cite idup hang ke Esah?? erk- mana la tau..

Manal said...

Is this kisah JT?

This is why a woman shud not just go and marry a man whom she does not know much about his love-life history. I knew a fella like that yg can never forget his ex and married to another woman 5 years later. He cheated on the wife too.Saya sgt bersimpati dgn nasib his wife...i told him what if she did it too? He said she'll suffer the consequences (as in he will divorce her and such). Sah bongok! Kotek dia jer kena consider....

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

Yanz..nampak sangatlah tak buat ulangkaji nya....

Manal..always,always spot on.Siapa lah lagi puaka yang dok kat Reading kan?

Typhoon Sue said...

whenever 2 people marry each other out of anything else but love, almost always, it's the woman who tries to make the marriage work while the guy spends his time lamenting about everything...
and then he leaves...
how typical!

loveless marriage or not, I'm sure nobody pointed a gun at his head right?

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

See Sue, another thing about men yang kawin bukan kerna chenta ni...dalam tak chenta..wife boleh mengandung kan?

Memang cilaka!!!!

Lee Novotny said...

Macam kenal jah girl tu..sapa ekkkkkkkk?? Hihihi

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

hah..mung kenal ke girl tu Hjh Leemah? Sure tersedak dia kat KL nun...

Noraini said...

Makji....mano eh cerito from twickenham/finsbury park wit lap?

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

Mano? La hai...kok ado, ceghito la, ni sobab takdo ceghito la ceghito hal oghang ni...

Noraini said...

Chenta agung JT lah kot awek tu ek makji...tu yg terkonang2 jo...

Susah kalau ada chenta agung nih, nak move on pun susah...sendiri susah...org lain pun disusahkan sama...nasib...nasib..

captlukman said...

konsep 'boleh kita berkenalan?' sangat lah fofuler dulu kan, termasuklah aku yg antar surat tu kat sorang pempuan tulin ya bukan pelese.....tapi cinta ku tak ditolak, dibuang je........hahahahaha