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Somebody I know once said to me that the perfect wife is the one yang tak banyak mulut and sporting.Understatement betul....

The fact is, however 'perfect' the wife is...nobody will ever know how to satisfy someone who clearly don't know what they want themselves.

My ex, once or twice told me that his wife is very 'pushy' and sometimes 'irrational'. What surprised me is that women are often very transparent and after a little while, you will know what sort of person you're dealing with.It takes years and years to know a man.My ex must have known that the wife were 'pushy' and 'irrational' before agreeing to be tied down in matrimony.So kenapa bila dah kawin pandai komplen pulak ? (Read: Padan muka..)

One question I never get to ask him is...I ni sungguh lah sporting nya...tak banyak mulut and memenuhi specifikasi bini idaman...tapi apasalnya you tinggalkan I?

Sebagai manusia biasa yang sungguh berminat dengan gossip-gossip masakini (plus, masa I balik hari tu..I tiap2 minggu tengok Melodi tawww...) I berminat betul mengikut gossip Abby & Norman Hakim tu.

It is very obvious that Abby is the 'pushy' type.I've seen worst.Ni semua type pompuan-pompuan yang bangsa suka menyerang laki/boyfriend kat tempat-tempat awam githooo....demi memenuhi kepanasan hati.This are the type yang paling senang kena cucuk dengan Batu Api.The fact that mereka-mereka ni selalu dikurniakan lelaki-lelaki yang gatal is really not helping.

Pompuan2 cemburu buta macam ni kadang-kadang misti diajar juga.However in Abby's case, you can't help but want to spare her the slack.Kawan tu baru beranak...laki pulak bangsa yang suka 'kawan tapi mesra' (hish..camni punya statement pun ada...) dengan segala pompuan-pompuan yang dia jumpa.My friend told me that pompuan masa mengandung ni self-esteem masing2 jatuh la ke size zero.Masa ni la rasa diri tak lawa, emosi tak tentu...rasa nak bunuh orang pun ada.Your only sanity is your husband...tapi kalau laki pun macam bolayan aje, tak ke kita ni rasa macam nak makan orang?

Alasan the jantan yang tak balik rumah sebab tak nak bising-bising...bukan ke menyebabkan hati bini makin gunda gulana?

Tup-tup..dah kena tangkap basah lah pulak and you can see why the wife macam nak gila.

Married life is always a gamble. I selalu cakap dengan si Tua tu, kalau you ada hati nak ada affair, I appreciate you bagitau I tau.Nobody like to be lied to..tapi kalau dah nak kena tipu jugak, nak buat macam mana? You really shouldn't torture yourself to insanity memikirkan eh..laki aku ni ada tak affair dengan sesapa pompuan kat luar tu.

Counselling only helps those yang betul2 nak berubah.To those yang pergi just to membuat syarat sebab terkantoi dengan bini...semoga tuhan ajelah yang boleh menolong.

Abby clearly cannot trust this man anymore than she should.He is probably as innocent as he likes to think but to allow his wife to suffer,especially sampai masuk front page sat Malaya dah tau, he is not after all the man a woman should consider buat laki.

He should really find himself a woman who will allow him the freedom, who would not mind if he stays out as and when and ultimately to just let him do as he please.

Dah lah..Abby, 1 pergi...10 mari. Although I am so into gossips, this matter is best kept private between the two.Enough embarassment already. Kan Kiah?