MLC...Wujud Kah?

Gigih tak I menghapdate uolsss? Gigihhhh...(sendiri jawab naaa)

2, 3 hari ni I banyak membuat kerja-kerja yang memerlukan tenaga fizikal...yakni membasuh kain, mencuci toilet dan menggosok baju. Ye lah...setelah seminggu terlantar dan atas paksaan doktor yang I mesti melawan sakit kepala yang tetiba datang dari tak tau mana uols.

Oh ye, setelah I sembuh dari sakit nak muntak menengok gambau Kak Sue yang menjulur lidah dek kerana ketatnya dan kemut nya karipap dia, ishh...so vomit inducing...I pun bacalah komen that anon yang bertanya if Mid Life Crisis adalah gangguan mental juga.

Hmmm....hmmm...hmmm....(pikir nak jawab apa) but like I said, no questions is a silly questions kan? Lagipun it is only fair to assume that since MLC tu macam datang tetiba je dalam hidup seseorang.

I think, in general orang selalu konpius as in what is what. Anything to do with slight alterations of behaviour maka mental lah akan disuspect. Lagi satu yang common ialah orang ingat schizophrenia dan personality disorder tu adalah benda yang sama.

Ohh tidakkk.Walaupun penghidap schizophrenia boleh mendengar suara dari lain2 sumber ataupun mempercayai benda dan nampak benda yang kita takleh nampak, ini adalah tak serupa langsung dgn orang orang yang ada split personality. Unlike people with personality disorder, pesakit schizophrenia tidaklah merubah seseorang tu dgn extreme. As is, split personality is from Nora Danis you boleh berubah jadik Pasasandak. But is Pasasandak menghidap schizophrenia, Pasasandak adalah tetap Pasadandak walaupun sedikit demi sedikit dia akan berubah menjadi Pasasandak yang sakit. Make sense?

Okay, split personality is a different illness altogether. But having work with ppl who suffers from this disorder, believe me, physically mereka ni tak sakit. Dan mereka ni adalah sangat menakutkan.

Let's try looking deep into middle life crisis ni. Personally I have never read any research about this nor have I seen any. Sebagai manusia, umur kadangkala mempengaruhi cara-cara kita berfikir.

Semua orang kata, orang lelaki ni lambat matang. Kalau hari ni dia berumur 19 tahun, jatuh centa dgn kawan sekelasnya dan pada dia, itulah centa pertama, terakhir dan abadi dan kalau boleh nak suruh mak nya pinang time2 tu jugak. But at 39, kalau dia jatuh centa lagi...dia akan berfikir, buruk dan baik dan macam2 lagi.

The more you allow your brain some space to relax, the more you see and realise, and perhaps like to reflect on things. But not all of us are the same.

Orang yang konon nya ber middle life crisis ni adalah selalunya set-set yang introvert dizaman tak matured nya. Masa tu agaknya dunia pun belum luas lagi. People often say that as men get older the propensity to go on the look for someone younger is higher. But although men may mature in age, their taste might still be the same. If 20 years ago they love young and energetic girls, 20 years after they're atill liking the same young and energetic walaupun dia tu sendiri dah nak rebah. There's nothing to do with MLC, I think. And of course with new happenings, they will want to keep up. Kereta baru...mobile phone baru...macam2 lah.

People just have the tendency to change, tak kira umur. Tapi...sebagaimana yang kita tahu...jantan, mana lah nak mengaku kesalahan sendiri kannn? Dia yang berubah hati, dia salahkan keadaan semasa. Anak nakal sikit, salahkan bini tak pandai jaga anak. Kalau boleh, dunia yang tak aman pun nak disalahkan kat bini jugak.

I think the problem with most men is that, while they claim that they don't like confrontation, their silly way of trying to avoid owning up mistakes jeorpardises their communication. I like to think this is true. They don't try to explain clear enough for their partner to understand...and you known during difficult times, benda yang semudah ABC memang susah nak difaham..so we need the men to try to make it as easy as possible (as traumatic as possible) for us to understand why they did it.

If your husband cheats on you, sampai you mati pun you will not understand his reasons of doing so, because he never try hard enough to explains it. I once asked this guy in teraphy room, kena dia tipu bini dia. What he told me (which dia kata dia dah try explain kat bini dia tapi bini dia tak paham) was, he was bored of the same old same old things so he strayed.

Perempuan pulak bila dah kechiwa kena tipu, laki dia cakap apa pun dia tak paham...ye lah, nak paham macam mana kan...when your husband tells you he is bored, you wonder why? You asked again, you bored? Bored of what? Bored of me?

The husband should have said yes, because it is true. But no, dia kata...I don't know..I don't know....I'm just bored with everything. So, kalau bosan dgn kereta lama, tukar lah dgn kereta baru kan?

To men the women is selfish. But the truth is, they're the one that is because they expect the women to understand and accept everything, and live with it.

So tak payah tunggu laki you naik umur lah. Kalau dia tu memang set2 yang bertulang sardin, every year umur dia naik, dia akan membuat perubahan yang menyakitkan hati you. Pastu expect you jadik pasrah macam Maya Karin.

Cuna kita bagi excuse kat dia yang kita ni ada MLC. Sure tak cukup tanah dia nak pi ngadu kat sedara mara kita yamg kita dah tersampuk hantu, kan?