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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Blocking Me Blocking You..ahaaaaaaa, There is nothing You Can Do

Saya adalah wanita gigih....(bukan kerna sindiran-sindiran tajam mieww okeh? you for one ada problem dengan status spoken for ku, apakah sebenarnya masalah mieww beybeh?)

In FB, I keep getting messages from tah engineer mana dari serata pelusuk donia..complimenting gambor aku yang kononnya tengah senyum. Masalahnya aku tak senyum langsung. And this ppl set-set gagak ni...ohh..mmg set-set diorang ni ajelah kan? Tak keep track ke dgn siapa dia hantar message? Nak buat business menipu pun, database kena lah jaga bang oii. MB's kata jangan lah layan message camtu buat delete je. But knowing me...at times boleh la jugak jadik syaitonn nirrojim, I pun jawab la message mereka itu dgn kata2..piss off back to Aprika, bley? Sungguh tak ferlu. But please la..muka macam Idi Amin ngaku Denzel Washington kan ke mintak dimaki?

So, from what I read...the governing body of the Islamic Dept kat Malaya nun...dah start mengempen balik mari anti V-Day. Sebelum tu pasal halal-harammm. Sebelum tu lagi pasal LGBT.

Dua tiga menjak ni...ada pulak kempen anti babi. I tataulah if kempen ni kempen kerajaan but orang yang menyebarkannya bersungguh-sungguh lah paksa kita LIKE wall dia demi menunjukkan betapa kuatnya kebencian kita kat babi tu.

Err, kena ke kita benci babi? Kan ke babi tu haram dimakan aje? Nak buat poster tahun baru cina pun gambar babi kena nyorok balik semak. Eh..raya cina and cina ramai yang makan babi, apsal lak melayu islam ni nak kecik ati or terasa sampai tahap yang tertinggi?

Untuk mengalakkan lagi orang nak faham Islam, bukan ke patut orang2 majlis buat program lain yang takde unsur venci memvenci? Kempen suruh orang jgn celebrate V Day, bukan ke lagi mencabar minda kritikal mereka yang sudah sedia kritikal ittew untuk lagi menyambut nya?

Buat la kempen mari sembahyang 5 waktu, mari mengaji..mari etc etc yang boleh menggalakkan syiar Islam wahai orang gomen oii. Bila tiang sudah kuat, nak elak apa2 yang patut dielak pun senanggggg, kan?

Semenjak membuat preparation nak balik Malaya secara permanent ni...I banyaklah juga kena introduce kat orang yang kiranya bolehlah tolong I dalam mengempen mission membaiki hidup pesakit mental di Malaysia tu. So thanks to this little social climbing, I got to meet and talk to very interesting people. And I got to meet sewel people too. I keep track of how many red flags I see.

Rumusan saya adalah seperti berikut -----semakin intelek dirimu, semakin kurang social skill mu dan semakin pelik pemikiran mu. Might you ask the difference between critical thinking and sewel thinking? Well, hidup ni tidaklah mendatar. Alangkan CT Nurhazali tu pun boleh dapat ilham dari kobis bunga untuk memperagan fesyen tudung nya, kita pun patut cuba dan menyoal benda2 baru untuk kita buat diri kita ni interesting.

So, berjumpalah saya dgn activist seorang ni. Dia lah panggil dirinya activist. Activist apa bendanya saya taktau, but I was told dia adalah femes dalam rangkaian burung biru ittew. Famous in giving her piece of mind. Since dah kena introduce, I bacalah jugak column nya kat sokabar online tu. Uish..I would rather read Kiah's ranting about BFF housemate nya dari baca pompuan ni punya opinion.

Once, she wrote about tudung and punyalah dia buat research pasal hukum pemakaian tudung ni. Well, kalau you orang Islam dan sudah mengaku dah baca Quran, mesti you tahu menutup aurat tu wajib kann? ---akak ni idok lah pakai tudung and never have I buat statement tunggu seru or pakai je tudung tapi akhlak ilek. Bila orang tegur mana hijab I, most I can say (tanpa nada gewamp gewamp) is..doakan lah eh...

Some intelectuals (ni yang set mengaku sendiri okay, bukannya bestowed upon them punn) have now openly tell you their views on sensitive subjects. I still find subject agama ni sensitive. Pendidikan agama kita lain2. Aruah Appa I dulu warak orang nya and I know bila duitnya cukup, benda pertama yang dia buat is pergi ke Mekah dgn Amma nya.

I also know someone who sangatlah baik orangnya but kuranglah sikit pendidikan agama sebab dah makpak nya begitu. Untung lah dia dapat laki yang boleh ajar dia sebab kalau nak harapkan makpaknya dulu, sikawan I ni kena malukan oleh setazah MRSM sebab dia tak reti sembahyang.

So sibudak pandai penulis column sokabar ni...openly cakap yang Religious Views nya ialah agnostic. So, ternampaklah oleh I argument2 dia dalam FB tu, if you ask me, the more she bark the obvious the stupidity shows. Maka I pun masuk lah bertanya, bukannya agnostic tu bermakna unsure and adakah dia maksudkan she is unsure about the existence of god?

Terus dia tak jawab I. I pun tambah lah perisa sikit dgn mengatakan yang orang bijakpandai yang kononnya tahu hukum ni, suka benar cari alasan nak meng excusekan kejahatan diri sendiri. Meaning, kalau you dah buat maksiat and anything yang tersasar, mengaku ajelah kann? Takyah buat argument besar2 pulak.

I said, like me, my iman kenkadang is very weng etc. But ngaku ajelah...dpd nak cari alasan intelektual kononnya. I ni pulak, some kewajipan I do, some I don't sebab memang my iman very weng. Not because I don't believe or deny it should be done. A lot of people seem to want to interprete Islam that suits their lifestyle rather then they fit into what religon asks of you. Hence the liberal activists. Githooo ucapan dasar I yang sungguhlah tak masuk akal tu.

I told her, first time aku dengar Agnostic Muslim. What rubbish is that? With apologies to her la (tetap menten sifat2 Social worker ni). Agnostics don't believe in organised religion but believe there is a supreme being which can be in the form of God. So how can be a Muslim Agnostic esp. If you recite the shahadah and proclaim you are Muslim. I think faith first of all is the complete belief in Allah and the way you prove this belief is doing everything that Allah bids you. Simple. How then can you claim to be a Muslim if you only believe in him but don't believe in the practise to do as he bids which is clearly in the Quran? One can argue til kingdom come about what imaams, ulama' interprete but there are some things in the Quran which is clear as light and day. Kalau tu pun awak nak question, wahh...cari masalah le awak.

Well, being defensive is still a popular choice of defence mechanism kannn? Hasilnya, dia kata I tak critical thinking bladibladila...dan I sudah kena block.

Well, one of many red flags.

11 comments:

CPI said...

salam..

makji, adik ipar i merupakan pengidap schizophrenia.. dah 3 tahun dah.. puncanye putus cinta.. lantas terluka sbb mak ayah halang mereka kwen.. and now.. dia schizophrenia

i kesian sgt kat dia.. umur muda lagi baru 22.. tp dah jadi lagu tuh..

so makji, selain dari suruh dia mkn ubat tenang tu hari2.. ape lagi yg boleh i tolong dia? i sygkn masa depan dia.. dia plajar cemerlang sebenarnye dulu.. tp now, tulah.. tak tau i nak cakap..


NenetPenne (NP) said...

u nak balik malaysia for good?
hoooh ramai yang nak tinggalkan malaysia for good..contoh? i lerrr...

ilham kubis bunga for tudung? so inspiring betul...

email spam dari pak2 gagak tu kalau memuji pergghghhh cairrr... tapi sorry i tak termakan kata2 pujian yang tak ikhlas dari pak2 gagak tu... selisihhh!!!

sarukman said...

Hehehe, selective muslim la kiranya khennn.

Dlm kata lainnya, benda yg dia suka buat tapi salah disisi ugama, dia provide la justification khen, mintak support sebenaunye..

mesti dia tgh gewamp gewamp dgn makji, hehehehe

captainlukman said...

Mu Sokmo bless dgn org2 pranga pelik gitu kan? God bless u nok..red flag red flag...muahahaha

Anonymous said...

Makji, I baru je lepas gado2 manja dlm dgn komen 'anonymous' dlm satu blog ni pasal tutup aurat ni lah. I said let the interpretation done by scholars not us the 'critical thinkers' ni yg x blaja secara mendalam.

Dgn sarcastic die nye reply '1)You said al-quran is insufficient? 2)makcik2 kat kg kene buat research dulu pakai tudung? 3) islam itu mudah kite je yg menyusahkn, so non muslim turn away, sikit2 stone, potong tgn bla bla'.By the way she said hijab tu budaya org dulu2,lelaki x turned on by rambut perempuan klu ade tu mesti pondan & org straight A's x choose pengajian agama so ustaz2 yg mengjar kte tu x bley pecaya. Bleh? Takut x baca statement tu?

Defense mechanisms sgt. I pon mls nak layan so I reply 'you remind me of kak pah jabeen listen..listen..listen. Die je nak menang. Point I lain, lain plak interpretation die. Kelas critical thinking die read between the lines kaaannn.

Klu I layan niscaya I penghuni rumah fitrah insan x lama lg.huhu

-Micha-

Makji Esah said...

Cik CPI, nak jawab soklan you kena buat entry lah gayanya..sebab jawapan panjang berjela, bley?

Nenet, dah I org Malaya, mana lagi I nak balik? Takkan nak balik aprika pulak kann? Cair ka baca message diorang? Ayat pun tunggang langgang la...potong stim aje.

Sarukman, bab support tu, sebagai kawan, kita kenalah support kawan kita kan...but takyahlah pulak nak hover justify benda pelik2. Mcm ada kwn I yg kaki botol, boleh dia bagi statement red wine tu baik utk kesihatan...eh? Air lain pun baik gak, apsal yg tu gak ko nak minum kennn?

Ohh Aking bebeh...hari2 aku memandang jeket vulus mu dgn doa...copek la ekau (dan tuna cili ku datanggg) hiks

Micha, wauuuuweiii, gaduh manja ka camtu? I like to hear gaduh tak berapa manja uols..hehehe

DeLancrettLurpak said...

eh jap, Sarukman tu userid T-Bag, dia terlupa logout dari kompiter saya, kehkehkeh..

yang benar,
mak si gewamp gewamp

Anonymous said...

I really like this post of yours..thank you for your sincerity in highlighting that it is your iman that is flawed and not the religion and also for not questioning and re-interpreting well known , clearly stated facts from the Quran or hadeeth.Allah knows our strengths n limitations.we can do our best and pray Allah help us as we try to perfect our iman.as a hijabi, I don't feel I am better than women who don't wear it.im just trying to follow allah's orders and there are so many other aspects of my iman that I need to work on, the tudung is just one of it.

Tired of ppl who try to re-interpret hukum hakam that does not agree with them and creating unnecessary khilaf.also tired of statements about having to perfect your 'inner self' before putting on the hijab or that ppl yg tak bertudung yg baik hati is better than org bertudung hati busuk.its not our job to judge others.just do what Allah tells you.

Thanks again.

Anonymous said...

Listen..listen..listen..listen..listen (x 11) to hjh esah. Dia semua betul dik

Anonymous said...

Suka kan gossip psl gado2 ni. Huhu.

Well, there was this article posted by a blogger. She just wanna highlight about a fren of her's inability to hijrah her perangai when she finally donned hijab. Munchollah komen ANONYMOUS ni referring to the fatwa facebook like the one yang you penah post kat sini tak lama dulu saying that there was this PhD student of al azhar with his theses challenging the hukum covering of a women's hair is not part of islamic teachings. (of which after tedious Googling, I x jumpa pun the valid source just some online 'newspaper' reports, ke I xbleh berbahasa arab I pon x jumpa kat website ilmiah or even from the university page itself melainkan kat forum2 diskusi sendiri je-hence, I conclude adalah surat berantai sajork). Sesuai untuk dibaca sbg pengetahuan je lah.

Yang meyebabkan I counter-comment is her statement berbaur begini 'ustaz xbleh percaya sbb staight A's student x choose usuluddin'. Means yang bodoh2 je lah pilih pengajian agama kan. Ramai sgt org nak critical thinking but maybe xpenah jadik postgrad kot so xtau the important principle in making a statement is to quote facts. Mana dia dapat statistic tu? Straight A's menjanjikan u pandai sampai bebila, ke pandai menghafal? Kalau yang straight A's SPM memang amik aliran agama tu takde sambung amik syariah? Einstein dulu fail 1st attempt into polytechnics but physics theories die pillars of modern science tau.

Bla, bla, bla, die pertikaikan jgn ikut sunnah sbb bukan hukum, al quran da lengkap x perlu hadith yang bincangkan tutup kepala. Anon was trying hard to sound logic sampai ckp pondan je tertarik tgk rambut perempuan, lelaki straight x ye. I yang over pengetahuan ke or ada org hidup dlm batu nih. Perempuan kencing berak lgkan ade org nak terangsang nak tgk hence the peeping tom, adakah die x penah baca about fetishes-talking about logic kan? About sunnah ni, it'd be easier to put in analogy. Masa sekolah dulu, you ade buku amali sains but it was easier masa amali tu cikgu sains tunjuk kat depan camamna nak buat dari you terkial2 nak buat sendiri or kenapa sebelum memandu you kene ambik lesen walhal you bleh je baca buku panduan memandu. X gitu. Al quran kan diturunkan melalui nabi bukan lah tetiba je ade kitab yg kita baca tu. So, anggaplah nabi sebagai cikgu kita. Dalam al quran tu ade hukum, so camamna nak jalankan suruhan tu adalah seperti yang nabi ajar lah. Itulah pentingnya hadith. Kalau tak nabi ajar, camane nak solat. Dlm al quran ada suruhan solat dan ayat2 yang suruh bangun, rukuk dan sujud je. So yang kita solat sekarang ni adalah persis solat nabi. yang penting kita jalankan suruhan solat tu. Same goes with hukum menutup aurat tu kan. Bukan lah budaya org dulu2 etc etc tapi itulah yang nabi ajar, lagi mao dipertikaikan.

Everyone's entitled to their own opinion but if you wanna use logic in your arguments, please sound like one. Tak la melalak menyalahkan pondan tetibe, tapi mcm funny statement gitu. Last2, I malas nak counter comment sbb I tau takkan abis nye so I berenti sajo dari membaca komen nye itu.

At last your article ni sum it up. There's lot of things to be perfected to be a good muslim, choose any that you feel like doing it first. But don't deny the one that don't suits you kan klu pun x nak buat dulu. Bravo makji.

*clap, clap, clap, standing ovation*

(sori la i x ingt sgt exactly komen2 ku itu so tokok tambah sebagai perencah)

-Micha-

Makji Esah said...

Aiyoyo Anon Listen Listen Listen...bley tak jgn similarkan I dgn Kak Seripah attitude tu...terhenna rasa nya..hiks.

Micha, well, I guess, when ppl come up with their logic, we should really give our benefit of the doubt, tapi ikut kapla kita sendiri la nak tgk boleh pakai ke tidak. The tudung issue is something I pun berminat but mana2 I pi baca, sebanyak mana org buat logic takde paksaan, takde hukum harus, sebanyak ittew jugaklah I jumpa facts yg menutup aurat tu wajib. Kalau taknak pakai sebab takut kecantikan akan jatuh 13 persen, dok dendiamlah kan, buat apa la nak berfeeling Seripah lisenglisengliseng tu kann?

I am exposed to things I'm not proud to admit and committed to it, but sebanyak tu lah jugak doa mintak I ni berubah hati.

Wallahualam bissawab :)