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Friday, April 09, 2010

Kawan Kawan and Tak Nak Kawan....

****Trust that I will publish this entry very late, much to Kiah PHD annoyance...but, saperti biasa...kau suka ada ke dari takde langsung???*****

It is very hard to keep up with Kiah's new lease of 'blog' life nowadays...selang seminit dia dah hapdate.I pun terkial-kial. Kiah and the rest would say..ye lah Esah tu berchenta...so masa banyak dihabiskan dengan ber Skype. Cakap laaa....cakap laaa.....

I got a friend request in facebook today. Ye..Kiah, despite ke kemarauan hapdate, aku gigih memasak kat Cafe. Semenjak Cik M makin mencanak-canak naik points nya..weih..hang tak kija ke Cik M? Dalam Cafe tu takde semangat kesukanan perkahwanan langsung...orang naik points aje, terus hati terbakar.

Well, I was saying about the friend request.This is from a complete stranger. Takde lah nak bagi salam ke tanya, mana dia kenal kita. So I send her message..telling her that I don't remember me. Hinting if she could understand sarcasm that, if I am one of your mates, then siapakah aku? Remind me lah.

Then dia jawab...saja add..nak ramaikan kawan..kakak angkat etc. Eh? Is this how people nowadays nak berkawan ke?

Dahle she got name yang seems obvious to me bukan her nama sebenar, but not as silly as those who christened themselves with name like Minah Beku Yang Sempit like that....hehehe...come across this name a lot lah. So with this girl, I told her that I have to decline for obvious reasons lah..that I only willing to open my space to those I physically know.

Nak kata semua yang dalam list I tu I kenal takde lah. But I do pick and choose. Some of which with full of regret but of course dah diremoved. I once accepted someone just because most of my friends are friends with him. So kawan aje lah...get to meet him in person and at first I seem to like his personality, despite apparent vulnerability. But in the end, tah hapa pasal....he removed me, not that I fussed, ye lah you can't paksa orang suka kat you kan? Although he said that the 'removal' was unintentional as FB admin kekonon nya ada pulak suka accidentally remove orang (haiya..do I look that stupid to you??) but I do have other life and death thing to worry about than the decrease of my friend lists. So we carried on being friends..FB or no FB, until I decided that he has too much of an issue that only him can cope...so selamat lah you dunia akhirat.

Ada pulak yang I kena terima sebab...sebab...ye lah, orang dah lavished kita dengan gifts what have you.Okay lah...it was okay at first, but later on...macam ada propaganda tak sihat and since mulut I pun ber konsep no hold barred githoo...maka yang tak kena kenalah di sound. Knowing what I know, and seeing this person actively being friendly in FB, making me so menyampah that she is still exist. Hish!

Well, people made many bad decisions and learn. Those two wasn't a bad decision at all, if I may say. Things just didn't worked out the way we all had wanted.

I still choose who I want to be friends with. I have quite complex and weird personality, so please don't think it is you.God knows I save you from all the trouble you may encounter with me.

p/s Desert Rose..ko taknak kawan dengan aku ke????

9 comments:

tireless mom said...

Mak Hjh

Sorry menyampuk. I think DR is too shy lah. You are so high profile gitew... takut... Nanti kita tengok apa DR komen ok. Akak belasah teka je ni.

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

haiyaa..high profile mendeeee???? masak pun tak gheti...

Desert Rose said...

Btol btol btol ,kes berfrofile tinggi woo ko neh mcm Alhantuya hu hu ...

Maksud ko tu kawan kat FB?? hi hi hi...aku dah skodeng ko dah kat FB "SESORANG" tu (aku dah janji tak mendedahkan dia kang dia saman aku wooh) tapi ko kan Diva Landen, harap ada gambo cinonet je,semua ko lock, aku takut woo salah orang karang orang tu kutuk aku kkat blog dia plak wakakakkaka.,,,

Typhoon Sue said...

a'ah, org2 kat fb tu mmg. takde hal le nak add someone semata2 utk meramaikan list kengkawan. i cuma ass yg i kenal aje. ada le jugak pat lima org yg kenal setakat kat online je, tapi klu dah bertahun2 kenal kat cyber, kira kenal jugaklah kan? ari tu ada 2, 3 org mamat africa dok pulun buat friend request. kita ignore, dia add lagi, ignore lagi, add lagi, siap hantar msg kata i just want to get to know you. i can't stop thinking of you, bla bla bla... WTF?? Bila masa ko kenal aku ntah! Suffice to say, i blocked him. And oh, i also blocked my eldest sister yesterday....eeeiihh jahatnyerrrr!!

Typhoon Sue said...

oh, aku baru ternampak typo error ku yg begitu kurang sopan gitu.. ni musti tgh nak mencarut kat sesapa masa aku tulis komen ni tadi...hihi

Manal said...

makji, another way is to set ur preference kat account setting tu. Sapa leh comment, sape kawan, sapa others etc.

I pon dah delete a few ppl yg i thot penah satu skola ke ape ke kan based on their mutual friends. Tanya2 rupanya dia suka2 hati jer add my ex-schoolmate. And mcm2 lagi la. I think better to create groups within the friends list tu pon. Sbb apa, i malas nak create 2nd, 3rd account...

Hjh Esah Jolie said...

DR...dah berjaya jumpa aku kat FB guna kucing pengesan...kan?kan?kan?

Sue...hahaha..I thought that was deliberate, to menunjukkan betapa sakitnya hati..ddnt realised it was a typing error. Elok la kau block kakak kau...I'm thinking of removing bunch of my siblings...

Manal..dah satu kerja pulak nak ada 2,3 account..macam Kerry Jemmyluddin lak kan? hahahah

Anonymous said...

kalau i minta esah add i dlm fb, mesti bolayan kan...hahahaa..takpe..as long as dpt baca blog u pon dah buat i happy...:)

-blue-

Hezan Aurora said...

hi..im new to ur blog...my fren introduced ur blog to me..n i like it!..m from N9 too..n like u,me too pilih who i want to be fren with either in fb or kat luar pon...n some just dont get it..i really like u tho...keep on writing...i'll read!