Let's Judge A Book...

You all tahu kan...the trend now is to advertise your good deeds. I am in two mind about this sebab ada orang yang berbuat baik dan sebab dia cerita perbuatan nya maka I pun menumpanglah, as in I chip in where I could to support him..walaupun muka dia set set kominih bintang. 

But I am sure, ramai yang tanpa pesbuk tanpa tah hapa-hapa medium tayangan sosial, buat baik tolong orang tolong binatang tanpa loudspeaker. 

But again, manusia lately ni semakin sewel. Benda kecik sampai sanggup bawak cctv footage pi confront jiran pasal kucing orang tu slipped into your greens. Anjing terkuchil kat pokok majlis perbandaran depan umah dia dia boleh kutuk kau-kau masuk pesbuk. Hek lehh, ala-ala dunia ni ko punya sorang la kan...so you need reminder to restore your faith in humanity. 

I want to talk about one particular do gooder. To his groupies, he is an angels that turns every corners into bright lights. Sebab dia ni banyak lah buat activity benda yang elok-elok. However after following him and after ada first hand experience, he is as annoying as anak Menteri yang bela beehive dalam tudung and baru kematian laki setelah mengutuk ex colleague Mak Piah tua. Maafkan saya...saya bersimpati you baru mati laki. Gigih you update IG you dalam kesedihan you ya amat tu. 

But this guy, yes I want to talk about him. To general public, he fancy himself as kambing. Quite apt lah if you ask me sebab, dia busyuk. Hik hik hik. Tak baik I ngata dia..dia sibuk berbuat kebajiakn nak mandi pun tak sempat, apatah lagi nak refresh aftershave. 

I for one takkan ada nya energy untuk membuat reja-reja dia. I hold my hands up. I admire his courage. What bugs me is that he has got too personal into it macam dia sajalah yang berfikir kearah menyelamatkan donia when other care less. In his own words, it is frustrating when people resist doing the right thing because they want to look important.

But people say, kebijaksanaan come naturally with maturity. Little boys and girls are competitive. Let's define what can be seens as competitive here. Competition nak buat baik..sampai terkeluar lah statement I wish I am dead so that I don't have to witness the destructions anymore. Laaaa hai. Cuba la ko kerja kat spital bila macam-macam kes masuk. Can you wish you be dead? Boleh dak kita insaf sikit yang tangan kita ada dua dan kederat kita hanya sebanyak apa yang kita ada...

To him also, the world moved on while we stood still, while waiting for one to play catch up. His analogy about world current condition adalah memualkan if you ask me.Since when dunia ni perfect? Can't you just be thankful because you're there, exist to turn the world around? 

Why does the world need to know how you wept about your failure to help? I have never realise that your crown is bigger than an average Diva. 

Kawan I, Monica Lewinsky bukan nama sebenar tapi perangai sebenar adalah lebih kurang, organise something at her workplace and nak lah memotivasi kan anak-anak buah nya supaya hidup ni kena ada tujuan dan hidup ini bukan hak exclusive. So Monica pi la approach si Kambing ni. The chronology from the first text message of approach sampai cenderahati bertukar tangan...can be sum up to this.

There is courtesy when asking for help. The minimum is to make it as easy as possible for the person helping you. To minimise their inconvenience. And to be polite when communicating with them as you inconvenience them. I think you failed on all counts. I am this close to just calling you a piece of *bleep*. Demanding macam haram. Pastu tak explain apa kau nak. You think people is a mind reader. A mind reader with nothing else better to do than to try and guess what will tick your boxes.

Here's the right criteria kalau nak jadi social worker. Vulnerable people either come to you or you have to find them. Not many will let off their guard and ask for help. Your work is to help them, in whatever way fits.

Some help that you offered may not appeal to them. I tell you bila orang dah jatuh terduduk ni, semangat pun ambik masa nak naik. Kerja kita bukannya nak jadi pandai telling them how to run their life. There's time and place nak jadik life coach ni. If theres a risk of death by hunger, you feed them. You can teach them how to fish later (that if they fancy it)

You cannot fixed people. If you help them, let it be about them...not you. Tak payah nak emo. If you think you are underappreciated, walk away. You have give enough. 

You must not turn people into you, or think like you do. 

Because if you have start to moan on how cruel, difficult the job is...mind you, job that you choose to do voluntarily then maybe there's something else that you're after.

You are not in for the glory. Perhaps you just enjoy listening to the big clap, mention and songs of praise non-stop.

Ke memang tu yang you nak?