Takda Tajuk Yang Sesuai

Did you all notice that recently, makin ramai pulak para-para single (or re - singled) men (of the straight persuasion) their 40s today have the Peter Pan syndrome. Apa tu? Alaaaa...syndrome takmau tua la...tak mau grow up gittew. I recently discussed this with my friends and we raised the possibility that they are so because of their women empowerment. 

You know, some of this men ada bini garang, mak garang..or adik beradik pompuan yang garang..berkuasa..tak pun...they have women that did everything for them. Ohh batuk! So...because women have become so strong, that they have become conditioned to be weak.

Weak la sangat...blah la. Jantan nowadays or forever, memang pandai mencari excuse. Okay..firstly, don't read this post thinking that I am preaching feminism here. Not in this this one. But I menyampah betul dengan set-set jantan yang pick and choose when to lepas tangan ni...and, I jugak menyampah lah dengan para-para pompuan yang rasa they have to take it all in...sebab tak mau berdosa la etc. 

When you hear stories about wives yang making sacrifices for their family, bertebal muka just in time to jaga air muka laki but the laki tetap la dengan ego dengan taknak berlebih kurang nya, you wonder why that woman still want to stand by him. Here's one account of story yang sampai sekarang I tak faham, kawan I ni, financially dia dgn laki dia gak strapped juga, but life is doable. Live within their means la. Satu hari kawan I ni ter discover yang dia maybe mengandung. The stick is saying yes but belum jumpa proper gynae or GP lagi. Boleh pulak laki dia marah dia apasal termengandung.

Macam lah perbuatan mengandung tu boleh dilakukan secara solo ye tak? I cakap lah kat kawan I ni, kalau laki you yang takmau sangat beranak, why not dia up sikit protection dia i.e. pakai lah sarung. The laki takmau. Bab tu dia mau freehair pulak. The bini must put stop to all baby formation. Mangkuk betul. Yang lagi I tak paham, wife dia pulak yang berusaha sensorang to make sure dia jangan mengandung. And she didn't even komplen. Laaa, naik lemak la jantan kau!

Then kawan I yang sorang lagi ni...semua masalah rumah dia macam dia saja yang tanggung sorang. Macam dia saja yang kena sakit kepala pikir and the laki yang do as he pleases and at his own time. Sometimes I really think men amik kesempatan using agama. Ko tak dengar cakap aku ko dosa. Ko keluar rumah tanpa izin ko dosa. But dia tu keluar sesuka hati tak hormat perasaan bini, tak dosa meh?

Mana pergi nya jantan gagah perkasa yang handles everything? So its the woman's fault again? For being overly helpful nak membantu para swomi la kononnya and tanpa mereka sedari mereka telah menyumbang kepada pembiakan bacteria Peter Pan ni. I am not talking Peter Pan band Indon yang lead nya buat bideo lucahs tu ya. Kalau kita dapat laki yang Peter Pan ghopa tu memang lah bahagia hidup!

Personally I think it's just that the men haven't sufficient sense of responsibility nor maturity to take all the responsibilities just like their forefathers do, and instead of owning up to the fact and doing something to correct it, they choose to lepas tangan and dengan happy nya pi blame bini for everything. Even if the bini yang buat mistakes, but kalaulah pertolongan di offer oleh puak2 mengaku pandai ni tadi dari awal, kan bagus? Yang paling tak best nya jantan yang lepas tangan letting wives fought their corner, pastu bila shit hits the fan baru dia nak masuk ambil alih but yang paling jahanam, buat buat macam all problems have got worse pasal the the wives campurtangan and now he is coming in as a hero dan lagi menunjukkan kan wives depa nampak jahat dan bodoh. Bukannya dia nak support bini dia! This is essentially being man-children or erti kata lain nya..bola takda!

What worse is...some women allow this. As in..ohh you have got to make your men feel useful, raise your men because if you don't no one else will. Bongok tau ideologi cam gini. Nak jadi supportive or isteri mithali bior la bertempat. This in a way regresses women's issues.Laki kau tu adults tau, so act like it. I ni suka pompuan yang menyokong laki but stroking ego laki kau cenggitu, takkan ada nya hasil kak oi. Nak kata kau akan dilambakkan dengan meh permata...di servis 3 kali seminggu paling kurang, takkan ada la yang ko nak score mithali points sangat tu!

Lelaki terlebih gagah pun lain pulak motivation nya sekarang. Kegagahan perlu ditunjukkan dengan mencari bini sorang lagi. Nak lagi gagah, you make it to the point your 1st wife have no other choice but to redha to her fate. 

Kalau men nak counter attack, women yang never grow up pun ramai gak but since korang pun dah kata kami ni supposedly be the weaker sex so it's okay lah kan for us to remain dependent. 

Menyampah pulak I tulis pasal ni !